Husband Goals

Goal 1 - Promote and Encourage your spouse so that they feel loved and supported

Goal 2 - Lead Well by taking initiative and leading by example

Goal 3 - You First. When there are arguments or things that don’t go right, look at yourself and what you could be doing better before blaming others.

Gaol 4 - Health. Focus on longevity so that you can continue to serve your spouse throughout your marriage.

Goal 5 - Have fun together. Be intentional about the ways you have fun with your spouse. 

Wife goals

1. We Love your man for who he is so he believes he can be the man you need.

2. Invest in your marriage now. When the kids are grown+gone it’s just you two.

3. Prioritize your personal health and growth. This affects more than just you.

4. Pursue your man inside the bedroom. When he feels pursued he will fight for your heart everywhere else.

5. Submit one to another. Mutual submission is a learned behavior.

6. Practice loving them in their love language instead of always expecting them to love you in yours.

7. Make room for grace. Mistakes will be made and how we handle each other’s hearts in the middle of the mess determines their willingness to share the messy stuff.

8. Speak life and love. You are stewarding a son of God. If you have boys they’re watching you as you model being a wife.

9.   Show up for him in the big and little things Cheer him on every chance you get.

10. Build your marriage with God as the foundation and you can’t fail. God doesn’t fail.  No matter where you’re starting, take daily steps to keep God in the center of your marriage or to build a fail proof marriage founded on God.