00:00 Introduction 

0:50 “Bully” is defined and introduced as the topic of discussion and the ways and which someone can be defined as such.

2:42 Merisa and Erica discuss bullying from a familial perspective and how it can possibly break one’s relationship with their loved ones or community

5:20 As an adult, it’s important to not allow yourself to be bullied and taking your power back

5:55 Merisa and Erica discuss fake sincerity and “fun” shade that comes from a bad place

7:01 First Impressions and their how it may play a part in bullying also hazing newcomers into social groups.

9:22 Taking accountability for our bullying 

10:09 Bullying in a relationship, does it exist?

10:50 Discussing the ways in which to discern between bullying and help by paying attention to tones and motives

12:18 Merisa and Erica discuss Kevin Samuel’s controversial statements made to a woman seeking counseling

15:00 This segment addresses the infamous rating game college guys play on women volunteers

16:24 Questioning people who pretend to be helpers and counselors but in fact, do not like people

17:33 Merisa and Erica discuss a mutual negative experience with a career counselor in the master’s program

20:42 Using the Real Housewives as an the case study, Merisa and Erica discuss “shade”

23:19 Revenge bullying, and when it may or may not be acceptable 

26:38 Closing 

Kevin Samuels link :https://youtu.be/VI6XWGKvUrE