But How's The Sex

By Elissa Sussman

The only podcast where a romance writer and guest debate the sex lives of fictional characters. Hosted by bestselling author, Elissa Sussman.... more

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How many episodes does But How's The Sex have?

The podcast currently has 9 episodes available.

But How's The Sex episodes:

August 27, 2025 Morgan Matson and PARKS AND REC, or why everyone in Pawnee is into role-playing
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Morgan Matson, as we debate the sex lives of characters from PARKS AND RECREATION.
Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Parks and Recreation (2009-2015)
Find Morgan online:
Website
Instagram
Buy GRADCHANTED here!
Buy her other books here!
Find me:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!
Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Tech Support - John Petaja
Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at [email protected]! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here.
And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.
But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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33min
August 20, 2025 Maurene Goo and the AVENGERS or why Loki is the ideal one-night stand
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Maurene Goo, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the AVENGERS franchise.
Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Iron Man (2008)
Iron Man 2 (2010)
Thor (2011)
Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)
The Avengers (2012)
Iron Man 3 (2013)
Thor: The Dark World (2013)
Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014)
Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)
Captain America: Civil War (2016)
Thor: Ragnarok (2017)
Avengers: Infinity War (2018)
Avengers: Endgame (2019)

Find Maurene online:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Preorder ONE AND ONLY here!
Buy THROWBACK here!
Buy her other books here!
Find me:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!
Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Tech Support - John Petaja
Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at [email protected]! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here.
And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.
But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
...more
32min
August 13, 2025 Falon Ballard and PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN, or why Elizabeth Swan needs a sex toy
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Falon Ballard, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise.
Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Pirates of the Caribbean (2003)
Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest (2006)
Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End (2007)

Find Falon online:
Website
Instagram
Preorder SOMETHING WICKED here!
Buy CHANGE OF HEART here!
Buy her other books here!
Find me:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!
Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Tech Support - John Petaja
Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at [email protected]! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here.
But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
...more
30min
August 06, 2025 Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing, or why Dr Barlett is totally a top
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Stayman-London, as we debate the sex lives of characters on The West Wing.
Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
The West Wing (1999)

Find Kate online:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy ONE TO WATCH here!
Buy FANG FICTION here!
Find me:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!
Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Tech Support - John Petaja
Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at [email protected]! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here.
But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
...more
33min
July 30, 2025 Teaser: Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing
Next week on But How's the Sex, Kate Stayman-London and I are talking about West Wing characters, specifically:
Josh Lyman
Sam Seaborne
Toby Ziegler
CJ Craig
Dr. and Mr. Bartlett
Full episode available on August 6th
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1min
July 23, 2025 Zan Romanoff and dirtbags, or why Travis Birkenstock is a national treasure
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Zan Romanoff, as we debate the sex lives of fictional dirtbags.
Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Clueless (1995)
Reality Bites (1994)
Friday Night Lights - TV Show (2006)
The L Word - TV Show (2004)
On The Bleachers Podcast with Zan and Sarah
Buy SQUARE WAVES
Buy BIG FAN
SELAH: Neighborhood Homeless Coalition
Find Zan online:
Website
Instagram
Blue Sky
Tumblr
Buy her latest here!
Find me:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy my latest here!
Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Tech Support - John Petaja
Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at [email protected]! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here.
But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
...more
31min
July 16, 2025 Teaser: Zan Romanoff and Dirtbags
Next week on But How's the Sex, Zan Romanoff are talking dirtbags, specifically:
Travis Birkenstock from Clueless
Troy Dyer from Reality Bites
Tim Riggins from Friday Night Lights
Shane McCutcheon from The L Word
Full episode available on July 23rd
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1min
July 09, 2025 Kate Spencer and FRIENDS, or why Monica is the best in bed
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Spencer, as we debate the sex lives of the fictional Friends (and Janice too!)
Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alert: Friends (1994)
Find Kate on the internet:
Website
Instagram
FaceBook
TikTok
Buy her books here!
Find me!
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy my latest here!
Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at [email protected]! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here.
But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
...more
26min
July 01, 2025 But How's The Sex: The Teaser
But How's the Sex launches on July 9th, 2025!
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1min

FAQs about But How's The Sex:

How many episodes does But How's The Sex have?

The podcast currently has 9 episodes available.