But Says Who?

Have you ever wondered if the life you’re living is actually the life you want, or simply the one you’ve been told you should want?

Sometimes everything looks perfectly fine on the outside. You’re making responsible decisions, doing what makes sense, and checking all the boxes. So why does something still feel off?

In this episode of But Says Who?, we’re exploring what it really means to be honest with yourself, the feelings we tend to ignore, and how expectations can quietly influence our choices.

We’ll question some familiar beliefs about clarity and certainty, and I’ll guide you through a little visualization to help you imagine what life could look like if you started listening to what you genuinely want.

✨ If these conversations resonate with you, follow But Says Who? for more honest reflections on self-trust, expectations, and finding your own way.

Let’s keep the conversation going!

Have a struggle or topic you’d love me to explore? I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

📩 Email me: [email protected]

🌿 Ready to explore what you really want? Visit https://shaistadamji.com to download my free Career Clarity Workbook or book a free consultation call.

And if this episode reminds you of someone, feel free to share it with her!

Thanks for being here. ♡

— Shaïsta

Have you ever looked at your life and thought, I did everything I was supposed to… so why doesn’t it feel right?

In my very first episode of But Says Who?, I’m sharing a little of my own story. From following the path that seemed responsible and practical to realizing that doing everything “right” doesn’t necessarily mean you’re doing what’s right for you.

We’re talking about expectations, the pressure to have it all figured out, and what happens when you finally start questioning the things you’ve always believed you should do.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, second-guessed your decisions, or wondered whether the life you’re building is actually the life you want, this conversation is for you.

And before you go, here’s something to think about: What’s one thing you’re doing because you think you should, and what’s one small step you could take toward what you actually want?

Let’s keep the conversation going!

Is there something you’ve been struggling with or a topic you’d love to hear my perspective on? I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

📩 Email me: [email protected]

Ready to explore what’s next for you?

Visit my website to download my free Career Clarity Workbook or book a free consultation call. Let’s figure out what moving forward could look like for you.

🌿 https://shaistadamji.com

And if this episode made you think of someone, feel free to share it with her!

Thanks for being here. ♡

— Shaïsta

Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “I did everything I was supposed to… so why doesn’t it feel right?”

Welcome to But Says Who?, a podcast about questioning the expectations, pressures, and “shoulds” that shape our lives.

I’m Shaïsta Damji, a life coach helping women move beyond self-doubt, trust their own decisions, and take steps toward careers and lives that feel more aligned with who they are.

Through personal stories, honest conversations, relatable moments, and a little laughter, we’ll explore career changes, self-trust, second-guessing ourselves, and all the messy in-between moments that come with figuring out what we actually want.

No perfect answers. Just a space to get curious, question the rules we’ve been following, and start making choices that feel like our own.

🎧 Listen to the trailer and follow But Says Who? so you don’t miss the first episode!

✨ Want to start questioning your own “shoulds”? Download my free Career Clarity Workbook here!

And remember, whenever you catch yourself thinking, “I should…” ask yourself: But Says Who?