Buysography

Bonus episode as we reflect on a decade out of leaving the church. 

We wrap up this season with how we got to our now. And in our final 4 we touch on our biggest marital lessons and advice. #freecounseling #whatdoweknow

A few steps forward, a few back. That's what many of the years in between felt like. We inch closer to understanding more about each other and in our final four we talk about the things we think are overrated. Sorry in advance to those on the other side. #beyhive #nofilter

We take another break to allow you to get to know us even more! Thanks to those who submitted final 4 suggestions, enjoy our chaos. 

Apparently changing our location does not heal all. Continue to follow along with us as we start to peel away at the layers and begin to realize how hurt we really were. Lastly, hear some highs and lows of parenting this far! #toysruspoo #wormhands

Join us as we navigate the next year of our life outside of the church. We quickly go from a blissful euphoric state to deep unexplained sorrow.  How do you begin to heal when you can't comprehend your own dysfunction? Join us in our final four to see how Ben improves his life with podcasts and Carlie improves her detective eye. 

This episode we find out some news that rocks everyone to the core. Every emotion was experienced.  At the same time, there's a path perfectly set up fo us that could only be God orchestrated.  Don't miss us sharing each other's quirks and habits. #2wethands #keto$

The Veil lifts and we begin to see the truth. Coming off NYC, we spend Christmas away which allows us to separate from our reality and get more understanding. Our pastors world is slowly crumbling around him, and us. This starts the beginning of our liberation, before things actually get way worse.  And hang tight for our favorite smells in this weeks final four. 

The trip of a lifetime that helped change it all. At the end of our wits and our wallets, we took the opportunity to visit family in the Big Apple. It was there that the fog began to lift slightly and we (Ben) were asked some questions; that for the first time started to sink in just a little. A huge part of our rescue started here. 

Our final year. Continued long hours, continued distance between us. We talk about the months leading up to the unraveling... Africa part 2, more gambling, and an office lease. Also hear our most memorable Chipotle dates. #unevenfood