Maintenance means very different things depending on who you ask. For Matthew, it’s shaving his head, trimming a beard, and avoiding anything that involves flip-flops or pedicures. For Nancy, it’s a lifelong relationship with her hairdresser, regular manicures, facials, and even eyebrow tattoos. Together, they reveal the realities of self-care in marriage, from routines to surprises, and how Covid even changed their approach. Funny, raw, and relatable—this episode shows that behind every couple is a very different definition of “maintenance.”

Takeaways:

• The concept of maintenance varies significantly between individuals, illustrating personal preferences and routines.
• Matthew's maintenance routine is minimal, focusing on shaving his head and trimming his beard.
• Nancy emphasizes a more elaborate maintenance regimen, including regular visits to her hairdresser and manicures.
• The pandemic altered both Matthew and Nancy's approaches to self-care and maintenance routines.
• Their discussions reveal how maintenance reflects deeper personal values and relationship dynamics in marriage.
• The episode highlights that self-care is not monolithic; each partner defines it differently based on past experiences.