In this episode of We Should Probably Edit This, But We Won't, Nancy and Matthew take a heartfelt and humorous look at aging—the milestones, the reflections, and the realities of turning 60. From aging and friendships to faith, volunteering, and the “Let Them Theory” from Mel Robbins, it’s a candid take on embracing life’s next chapter with purpose and humor.

They talk about what they’ve learned from their younger selves, the value of resilience, the importance of friendships in this new phase of life, and why growing older doesn’t mean slowing down. They share a weekend full of volunteering, facials, and spiritual reconnection, all while trying to map out what the next 10 years might look like. If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and wondered how you got here (and what the heck you're doing next), this one’s for you.

Takeaways:

• This episode underscores the importance of friendships as we age, emphasizing that cultivating meaningful connections can significantly enhance our quality of life.
• Nancy and Matthew reflect on their youthful perspectives, highlighting how the wisdom gained from experience informs their understanding of aging and personal growth.
• The discussion introduces Mel Robbins' 'Let Them Theory', which encourages individuals to focus on their own lives rather than becoming preoccupied with the actions of others.
• Their engaging conversation reveals that growing older does not equate to a decrease in vitality; rather, it can be a period of increased purpose and fulfillment.
• The hosts share a poignant narrative about volunteering, illustrating how giving back to the community fosters a sense of belonging and spiritual reconnection.
• They contemplate the uncertainty of the future, revealing that while they do not have all the answers regarding their next chapter, they are committed to embracing life's journey with optimism.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Mel Robbins 'The Let Them Theory'

What do you value—really value—as you grow older? Nancy and Matthew tackle that question by looking back on what their moms taught them, what they learned raising three kids, and how their outlook has changed now that the house is (mostly) quiet. Expect stories about Italian grandmas, car seats on school buses, parenting wins (and fails), and how growth never stops—whether you're 37 years married or just figuring out dinner plans. This one’s full of laughs, lessons, and love.

Takeaways:

• As we progress through life, our fundamental values evolve, reflecting our growth and experiences.
• The teachings and sacrifices of our mothers profoundly shape our perspectives on love and family.
• Parenting presents both triumphs and challenges, with each experience contributing to our understanding of resilience.
• In this quieter stage of life, we focus on nurturing deeper connections with our adult children and friends.

After 37 years of marriage, you learn to let some things go… and passive-aggressively bring up the rest on a podcast. In this episode, Nancy and Matthew take a hilarious tour through the land of pet peeves, exploring everyday irritations with humor, love, and just the right amount of sarcasm. Whether it’s red lights that refuse to sync, the mysterious male/female plumbing parts aisle, or the eternal “what’s for dinner?” standoff, they find a way to laugh through it—and maybe even learn something in the process. We all just need to let go of what really doesn’t matter. It’s a candid, funny, and all-too-relatable take on navigating life’s small irritations while staying connected, curious, and maybe even a little more chill.

Takeaways:

• After 37 years of marriage, we have learned the importance of letting go of trivial irritations and focusing on what truly matters in our relationship.
• In this episode, we humorously explore our pet peeves, ranging from traffic signals to the challenges of meal planning, highlighting the everyday frustrations many couples face.
• We discuss how communication plays a vital role in mitigating annoyances, emphasizing the need for patience and understanding between partners.
• The episode illustrates that while certain habits may irritate us, it's essential to approach these issues with love and humor, allowing for growth in our relationship.
• Through candid conversations, we reflect on how our perspectives on annoyances have evolved over time, suggesting that maturity often leads to greater tolerance.
• Ultimately, we conclude that shared laughter and open dialogue about our pet peeves can strengthen our connection, reminding us that we are in this together.

In this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive deep into their messy, funny, and sometimes frustrating journey to better health. They share lessons from blood tests, body scans, fad diets, and functional medicine—and reveal what actually worked (and what absolutely didn’t).

Along the way, they talk about the emotional side of health, how to stay motivated when nothing seems to work, and why it’s essential to craft a sustainable lifestyle rather than chase another diet. Expect real talk about resistance bands, bread cravings, marriage teamwork, metabolism madness, and the occasional desperate experiment with apple cider vinegar.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by health advice, frustrated by slow results, or just need a reminder that progress isn’t perfect—you’re in the right place.

Spoiler: It's not about perfection. It's about not giving up.

In this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive into the complex world of in-laws—where respect meets resentment, and personal choices collide with family expectations. They unpack decades of family dynamics, cultural differences, and advice passed down from parents (“Don’t complain to the in-laws!”). With personal stories, generational truths, and a few awkward laughs, this episode explores how marriage isn’t just between two people—it’s between two family systems.

Whether you’re navigating a tricky relationship with your child’s partner or wondering what to say (or not say) at the next family gathering, this one’s for you.

Takeaways:

• Navigating relationships with in-laws necessitates a profound understanding of diverse family dynamics.
• Respect and communication are paramount in mitigating conflicts that may arise from differing cultural backgrounds.
• Personal choices in marriage inherently involve the blending of two distinct family systems, often leading to unforeseen tensions.
• Constructive advice from parents often emphasizes the importance of refraining from discussing marital disputes with in-laws.
• Generational differences play a significant role in shaping how family members perceive and interact with one another.
• Ultimately, fostering kindness and understanding within family relationships remains an essential goal in navigating these complex dynamics.

Nancy and Matthew return from GrowthDay in Austin with fresh insights on connection, personal development, and the power of finding your "growth friends." Between deep talk about adult friendships and a wildly untrained puppy named Celia, they explore how our circles evolve, why making friends later in life is harder (but worth it), and how the messy stuff often makes for the best stories. It's heartfelt, chaotic, and 100% unfiltered—just the way we like it.

Nancy and Matthew are back—hot flashes, party-crashing, church-hopping and all. In this unfiltered episode, they unpack one of the most misunderstood myths in relationships: that marriage is supposed to be 50/50. From raising kids and managing a home to who really scrubs the bathroom and how to survive grocery shopping together, they dive into the real dynamics behind long-term love. Along the way, they tackle resentment, communication (or the lack of it), and why it’s totally okay to make a sandwich like a damn artist.

Oh, and what happens when you suddenly realize you actually like your partner?

Tune in for laughs, truth bombs, and a sneak peek at next week’s episode on making (and keeping) real friendships.

Matthew thinks he’s got it all figured out, but Nancy has a different take. In this unfiltered debut, we tackle family, finances, and the fine art of disagreeing—because sometimes, the right answer isn’t so clear.

Takeaways:

• Our podcast is entitled 'We Should Probably Edit This', reflecting our unfiltered discussions.
• In relationships, effective communication plays a critical role in navigating misunderstandings.
• Financial discussions within families are often avoided, yet they are vital for education.
• We emphasize the importance of saving for the future, starting from an early age in life.
• Listening to experienced voices can prevent unnecessary complications in everyday situations.
• We have established financial guidelines to manage our family's monetary decisions effectively.