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BY FAITH episodes

  • Embrace The Roles As Men And Women Of God

    In this empowering episode, our host Kyia Mochitani talks about a journey of transformation, exploring the transition from sass to class in relationships.  She shares the hardships of understanding the roles of men and women due to where society stands. The host opens up about her own experiences, particularly during the time of dating Jake, where she candidly reflects on past behaviors—being mean, insecure, controlling, and deflective.  Kyia talks about encouraging women to embrace their transformative journey, embodying grace, wisdom, and kindness in their relationships. The lessons shared serve as a guide for fostering healthy connections and contributing to the flourishing of both individuals in a partnership.

    19 min
  • This WILL Change Your Mindset On Hardships

    In this quick episode, our host Kyia Mochitani talks about how hard times are not setbacks but integral parts of our journey, molding us into individuals with greater perseverance, character, and hope. Instead of questioning why challenges occur, focus on what you are gaining and what virtues you are learning to live out. She reminds us that through hardships, you are not merely losing; you are growing in ways unimaginable.

    10 min
  • S.2 Ep. 53: How To Navigate Finding Your Purpose In Your 20s

    In this episode, our host Kyia Mochitani shares how to navigate finding purpose in your 20s. She tells us how feeling lost and uncertain in your 20s is entirely natural. It's okay not to have all the answers about your future, but what's essential is believing that God has a plan and purpose for your life. In this episode, we dive deep into the challenges and triumphs of discovering your life's purpose with faith as your guide.


    17 min
  • S.2 Ep. 52: How Church Has Transformed Our Life AND Relationship Ft. Jake Stammer

    In this episode, our host Kyia Mochitani, invites her boyfriend Jake Stammer on the show to discuss the importance of church. This power couple shares their testimony on how church has completely shifted everything in their individual lives, as well as their relationship. They discuss hard topics such as returning to church after being hurt, going to church alone, and getting plugged in! Join them as they talk about this important topic!

    18 min
  • Part 2: How To Trust The People That Have Completely Betrayed / Hurt Us

    In this episode, our host, Kyia Mochitani shares how we can fully trust the people who have wronged us.  She answers questions like: How do we trust someone who completely betrayed us? How do we trust a friend who knows everything about us, and completely went behind our back and betrayed us? How do we trust a family member that has caused us a lot of trauma? How do we put our heart back on the line after someone completely broke it?


    Kyia shares how we need to fully surrender and trust God in order to trust others. She shares from her own personal stories, along with Biblical truths on trust. The scriptures she shares are,  Hebrews 11:6,1 Corinthians 2:5, Ephesians 3:12, and Psalm  31:14-15. She dives in deep and gives the audience the most simple and practical way to trust again. 

    15 min
  • Part 1: How To Have Compassion For Everyone For The Rest Of Your Life

    In this episode, our host, Kyia Mochitani shares how we can experience compassion and forgiveness to all of the people who have wronged us, who have hurt us. Kyia gives us ways to be filled with grace and compassion towards one another. She is a firm believer that compassion WILL lead to forgiveness.

    Kyia reads from multiple pieces of scripture that has helped her forgive people that are hard to forgive, give grace to people that hard to give grace to, and overall feel at peace during times that aren't peaceful.  (Matthew 6:14, Mark 11:25-26, Romans 5:20-21, Luke 2:40, Psalm 18:23)

    She explains how God calls us to forgive those that persecute us, to love our enemies, to be salt and light. Kyia says there is no way to feel peace and resentment at the same time, and how we can not hold grudges and forgive others in the same breath. 


    20 min
  • 5 Proven Steps To Let Go Of Control And Comfort And Into God's Plan For Your Life

    In a world filled with uncertainty, the desire for control is a common struggle. Join us on a journey of faith as we explore how to step out of your comfort zone and embrace God's plan for your life. The host, a self-proclaimed control freak, shares personal experiences and biblical insights to guide you on this path of surrender.

    In this podcast, we delve into the challenge of relinquishing control when we don't know the plan, the fear of uncertainty, and the profound need for certainty in our lives. We draw a parallel between the certainty we have in Jesus and the uncertainty of how His promises will manifest.

    19 min
  • What If I Told You There's A Way To Experience Breakthrough In A Season Of Waiting

    In a world that often demands instant gratification, the concept of waiting can be challenging, even frustrating. In this episode, we uncover a profound truth—waiting is not wasted time; it is a period of profound growth and trust in God's divine plan.

    Join us as we delve into the transformative nature of waiting, where we discover how waiting is an exercise in trust, and how it challenges us to truly rely on God, even in our driest season. Our host, Kyia Mochitani shares profound wisdom of waiting, and how it shapes us into stronger, more faithful individuals, just as God intended.

    15 min
  • How You Can Be A Better Friend

    Join us in this heartfelt episode, where we explore the complexities of friendships and the profound impact they have on our lives. Our host, Kyia Mochitani, shares a personal journey of friendship, filled with ups, downs, and invaluable lessons learned along the way.

    In this enlightening episode, Kyia guides us through the complexities of friendships, offering insights and wisdom that can help us build and sustain meaningful connections. Whether you've experienced the pain of losing friends or are seeking to deepen your existing relationships, this episode provides a roadmap to creating bonds that withstand life's inevitable ups and downs. Join us on this journey of reflection, growth, and connection.

    19 min
  • In The Middle Of The Mess (What The Bible Says About The Season You Are In)

    In this episode, the host, Kyia Mochitani draws from personal experiences and the wisdom of scripture. Oftentimes, when faced with adversity, we find ourselves asking, "Why, God?" instead of "How, God?" This episode aims to shift our perspective from dwelling on the 'whys' to uncovering the 'hows' of navigating through the storm.

    We explore the powerful notion that what the devil meant for bad, God meant for good, and how this truth can transform our outlook in the midst of chaos.

    Throughout the episode, we counter facts about the challenges in your life with biblical truths that offer peace and guidance. 

    From strained family relationships to financial struggles, mental health issues to career obstacles, and even matters like finding true friends, body image concerns, breakups, grief, and substance abuse, we delve into passages from the Bible that provide inspiration and encouragement.

    Whether you're currently in the thick of the mess or looking to support someone who is, this episode offers wisdom and perspective that can help illuminate the path forward. Tune in to "In The Middle Of The Mess" to discover how the Bible speaks to the season you're in and how you can find hope and purpose, even in the most difficult of times.

    22 min

About BY FAITH

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Welcome to the BY FAITH Podcast! 

My name is Kyia Stammer and I am your host for this show! After listening to each episode, I want you to feel encouraged, seen, and eager to spread…