Thank you to everyone who has stuck with me through all this. 2020 has been a trying year but am super grateful to have had you on the journey with me. wishing you an Merry Christmas and a happy and prosperous new year

In a world where Good always triumphs evil. what does it mean to be good? What is the cost of being good. When you build your identity around goodness how can you find yourself?

What does it mean to be African?

What does being Single look like? Is there a way of framing single hood beyond the narrative of it as a segway before something more? In this episode I share what my journey with singleness has been and how I am navigating it. 

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Our lives can be broken down into a series of stories. The stories we tell ourselves about the world and the stories we tell other about ourselves. In these stories who gets to be the hero and who gets to be the villain? 

Inspired by Mark Manson's book the Subtle Art of not giving a F*ck, I discuss what exceptionalism means to me and how that has affected how I see myself and the world around me.

We can then say that it’s a statistical improbability that any single person will be an extraordinary performer in all areas of life, or even in many areas of their life"

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When it comes to religion there are many divisive and unifying thoughts and beliefs. My journey with religion has been one that has led me to a place where  I cannot completely identify with one faith but respect values entrenched in most. 

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In the world of buzzwords, race politics and race identity often. Being black is reduced to a monolith and I find myself exploring the ways in which I exist and thrive in this identity.

Feminism is one of those values that I stand by resolutely. In this episode I explore the nuances and dynamics that sometimes make up this expression of self for me. 

After 14 episodes of "Finding Myself"  I am finally ready to close this chapter. In this episode I recap the journey and all the lessons I have learnt during this season of Finding. Thank you so much for listening . Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @cactus_Fleur