Loving a pastor is not enough. You can be filled with so much love for him and want to be with him so much. But that’s just the foundation of your decision to marry him. If you want to marry a man called by God, you must be spiritually mature and have a deep relationship with God yourself. This is because when you marry a pastor, you are not just entering a marriage — you are stepping into a spiritual assignment.

Many ladies have asked me. In supporting your husband's vision, what if you also had your own vision before you married? Are you supposed to let go of yours and do his? You will also give an account of what God has called you to do, so what should you do?

Welcome to episode two of the READY TO MARRY series, which is specially dedicated to young women who are courting pastors and those who have the desire to marry a man of God. Marrying a man of God is not a mistake. It is not a burden. It is a divine privilege, and I’m going to explain to you why.

In this episode let’s find out this, who are you? Over the years I’ve had this question asked me by many pastors wives who usually want to know, beyond their role, as pastors wives, who are they

Marrying a pastor is not just a romantic decision — it is a spiritual decision.

Before you enter any relationship — whether business, friendship, or marriage — wisdom demands that you understand what you are entering. You must know what it entails, what will be expected of you, and what your life will look like after you say “yes.”

In this episode, I seek to help us establish the identity of a pastor’s wife. What does the Bible say about a pastor’s wives? What are the expectations of a pastor’s wife, and what does God expect of you?

If you are a pastor's wife, you need to know that you are not married to your husband by mistake, no matter how you got into that role; God has a plan for you regarding the marriage you are in. 

Whether you knew you were to marry a pastor, or you married someone who was in another profession or job and later was called into ministry, or you didn’t want to marry a pastor yet found yourself married to one anyway, there’s a plan God has for this kind of marriage, and you need to embrace it. 

Called To Support is a safe and empowering space for pastors’ wives and women called to partner in ministry.

Hosted by Lois Impact, this podcast offers biblical wisdom, practical guidance, and heartfelt conversations on identity, emotional health, leadership, marriage, and purpose. Whether you are newly married into ministry or seasoned in leadership, this podcast will strengthen you to support well — without losing yourself.