E225: Avoid the Career Do-Over – Transition Rule #5
When it comes to transitioning from the military to the business world, you want to avoid the career do-over. Many officers define a successful transition by landing that first post-military job. At Cameron-Brooks, we define the transition not by accepting a job. We define a successful transition as 3-4 years down the road when you’ve transitioned from a military leader into a business leader with a track record of results.
That’s why Rule #5 in our Career Transition Playbook is: Avoid the Career Do-Over.
Joining me is Lauren Kordzik, one of our Principals on the client side of our business, joined me to discuss the Career Do-Overs as she spends her time working with JMOs in our program at the Conference and in the Follow-Up Process. Lauren works closely with our client companies and has deep insight into what companies are looking for in high-performing JMOs. She also spends most of her time between conferences working with our Alumni who have successfully transitioned out, so she has credible and valuable insights and data points into personal and professional life post military.
Before we get into Rule 5 – the final rule in the Cameron-Brooks JMO Transition Rules to business – let’s recap the Cameron-Brooks JMO Transition Rules 1-4:
1. E218: Transition Rule #1 – Don’t Do It Alone
2. E219: Transition Rule #2 – Develop an Investment Mindset
3. E220: Transition Rule #3 – Build a Non-Traditional Career Search Strategy
4. E223: Transition Rule #4 – Embrace the Growth Mindset: Past Success ≠ Future Success
What Is a Career Do-Over?
A career do-over happens when someone pivots out of a role too quickly – sometimes within 6 to 12 months – because the position didn’t meet expectations, or one feels underemployed. Essentially, it’s a restart that often stems from a misaligned strategy, impatience, or a misunderstanding of how to grow a business career.
Lauren put it best during a recent conversation: “The transition doesn’t end when you accept the job. It starts there. The honeymoon period fades quickly, and that’s when the real learning and growth begins.”
Why Job-Hopping Hurts Your Trajectory
We often use the analogy of a wedding cake. A successful business career builds layer upon layer – roles, projects, mentors, results. But frequent job changes early in a career leave you with cupcakes instead of a tiered cake. There’s no foundation to support long-term growth.
Lauren offered another great metaphor: Candyland. Every job change sends you back to the beginning of the gameboard. You’re not progressing; you’re just starting over again and again. By the time someone hits their early 30s, they may have worked at 3 or 4 companies with little to show in terms of upward mobility or leadership progression.
Another analogy that I often use is taking early withdrawals from a retirement account. When you take early withdrawals, you can be penalized and have to pay taxes. If this were your career, you don’t just lose what you withdraw, but you also interrupt the compounding growth in your career, resulting in losses over time.
In both cases, short-term decisions can sabotage long-term success and limit the full potential of your investment. You also lose momentum, making it harder to build the kind of upward trajectory that leads to greater responsibility, leadership, and future opportunity.
Focus on Intrinsic Motivators Over Extrinsic Rewards
One of the biggest drivers of do-overs? Choosing a job based solely on extrinsic factors—money, location, title. While those are important, they shouldn’t outweigh intrinsic factors like culture fit, learning opportunities, and how well the role aligns with your natural talents.
Lauren referenced Stephen Covey’s “Big rocks in the jar” analogy. You must define what matters to you most (The Big Rocks), before starting your search. Ask yourself:
Will this role allow me to grow?Am I working with people who will invest in my development?Do I believe in the mission and values of this company?Be Open-Minded and Open to Discovery
One of the most common regrets we hear from JMOs who made early career pivots is that they didn’t explore broadly enough. They limited themselves by geography or industry and passed on roles that could have launched remarkable careers.
I think of a former F/A-18 Hornet Marine Corps pilot who initially dismissed medical device sales, only to discover through conducting a broad career search that it was a perfect match for his drive, communication skills, and passion for serving others. Today, he’s a Regional Sales Manager for one of the fastest-growing medical device companies that grew over 60% in total revenue last year. He is flourishing and so is the organization he plays a major part in leading.
Lauren reminds candidates: “Companies don’t expect you to show up on Day 1 ready to run the business. They’re investing in your potential.” She touches on a mutual investment in one another, and the investment in the JMO is helping them learn the business, grow, develop, and get into a company’s succession planning.
We’ve studied JMO transitions for a long time, and we define the successful transition as 3-4 years where a JMO transition starts off active duty, and ends with a strong JMO transitioning from being a leader in the service TO being a leader in business and part of a company’s succession planning process.
If you want to be a future leader, it’s imperative to not only get out of the service but also to do it by laying the foundational work to become part of succession planning for future leadership roles in a company.
Success = One Company, Multiple Roles in 3 – 4 Years
The gold standard for a successful transition isn’t a prestigious company or fancy title – it’s building a track record. Stay with one company for 3-4 years. Rotate through different roles. Lead teams. Deliver results. That’s the foundation for development business career.
Final Thoughts
If you’re preparing for your military-to-business transition, remember:
Don’t just chase the extrinsic factors: job titles, company, money, and location. Those are very important! However, focus on building a track record. The score will take care of itself, and all those things will come.
Don’t get distracted by the cupcakes. Build a wedding cake.
Avoid the career do-over by committing to the process, being open to new paths, and focusing on your long-term objectives.
Thanks to Lauren for joining me in this discussion. Her insights continue to shape how we support both our candidate and client partners at Cameron-Brooks.
Our mission is to help guide officers through the transition and accompany them along the journey to de-risk the transition and help them reach their goals.
We aim to equip JMOs with the tools and the necessary reflection and preparation required to successfully transition into leadership developmental roles that will allow them to use their talents and skills to lead teams and organizations that will flourish.
If you want to talk more about your options, don’t hesitate to reach out.
Joel Junker | [email protected]