Inspiration is not automatic. It's being able to be free to be who you want to be. That when you get distracted you stop paying attention to what you need too. I had to let go of the expectations and learn to let go of what no longer served me. Trust yourself and inspiration will happen.

Sometimes we have to put that pen down and just process. Take in everything from the day.

I had a request to hear some of my erotica writings. Just testing it out to see who would be interested. This is called "Unite."

Dating is awkward for everyone. But the stories can be epic. Don't you ever wonder about those thoughts you kept private?

Remember there is always more than one perspective. I talk about my short story "Perfect Strangers." Sometimes all it takes is a stranger to understand you better. As you run away into a fantasy and the rush of endorphins.

Any relationship can be difficult. At the end of the day you can only be accountable for your own actions. Value yourself before you jump in with another person.

Infatuation or love. That is the question we all ask ourselves. That and if we are ready to accept what is being put in front of us. Sometimes we aren't ready and that's okay. But disappearing can hurt the one who pursues. So keep in mind it's better to say you aren't ready then ignoring them. Your intent may of been not to harm, but damage can't be repaired.

Let's talk about dark romance sex and the reality of what makes writers create. Lola also telling us about upcoming projects and soon to be publishing her first poetry book.

9 months ago I packed my bags and started over. It was frightening but sometimes you just have to trust that everything will be okay.