Latter Day Struggles

Episode 107: Can a Marriage Survive After one Partner Departs from their Plan of Eternal Orthodoxy?

03.27.2023 - By Valerie HamakerPlay

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In this final guest-interview portion of their ‘Eternal Marriage Theology Health Check’ series, Valerie visits with a married couple who shares their journey from early Mormon orthodoxy (which came naturally for him and felt like an ill-fitting costume for her) to their current stance as a couple whose primary allegiance shifted away from the LDS church and its beliefs and towards true commitment to each other and their expanding understandings of God, growth, and love.

Does this mean the LDS church no longer mattered to them? No. This couple shares their tender journey honoring his more traditional views and the real anxiety he felt both for himself and his wife as he witnessed firsthand her suffering as she no longer could conform to much of the LDS teachings that worked well for him.

Their story is one of authenticity, compassion, disorientation, struggle, conflict and resolution, and ultimately, what it looks like to really—really—unconditionally love your chosen partner, exactly as they are and where they are in their faith journey.

Does this couple’s early journey align with struggles you are feeling in your own marriage? If so, beginning March 31, 2023, go to latterdaystruggles.com and purchase a brand new online course led by couples therapist Valerie Hamaker titled “An LDS Couple’s Guide to Faith Crisis and Expansion”

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