Q: Hi Candice.

I haven’t given you my real name. It’s hard to send this even with an alias.

I grew up knowing that real men don’t cry, if you can’t solve everything you’re not a man, if people don’t do what you say, they don’t respect you. I don’t think I’ve had an honest or vulnerable conversation since I was 11. I won’t risk looking weak to anybody. I’ve noticed that it’s becoming more difficult to control my anger. I don’t know if this is even a question.

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