In this powerful episode of Candid Confessions, we dive deep into the complexities of abusive relationships - what kind of abuses are prevalent, what they look like, how they affect victims, and why breaking free can be so difficult. Hear Relationship Coach DHANA SUPRIYA CHHEDA shed light on emotional, physical, and psychological abuse, the red flags to watch out for, and the long-term impact.SHARE this video if it helps you!LIKE & FOLLOW. New episode drops every week.YOUTUBE: www.youtube.com/@BWWC
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CHAPTERS:
(00:00) Introduction about what to expect from the podcast.(02:53) Who is Dhana Supriya, and what are the different kinds of abuse in relationships.(04:52) What is Gaslighting?(07:20) Does a manipulator know when s/he is manipulating someone? (08:40) How can you differentiate between when you are being blamed and when you are actually at fault? What are the different types of conditioning we are subjected to from childhood that lead to acceptance of abusive relationships.(10:31) How to you differentiate between normal fights and abuse? How to break patterns? What is the importance of growth in relationships?(12:44) Does the abuser follow a pattern? Can abuse be just once or is it always repeated?(14:21) Is abusive behaviour treatable? How can you as the abused undergo treatment to change your own acceptance of abuse.(17:50) When do you draw a line and say NO I cannot take this anymore.(18:59) What about people who are not courageous enough to get out of an abusive relationship? What about not being financially independence or what about the presence of kids.(21:30) Is the abuser also a victim at a certain level? How much responsibility do you have as the abused, to navigate an abusive partner out of his or her trauma? How to set boundaries?(27:06) How do you decide whether to give the other person a chance when he or she is emotionally abusing you?(30:13) Is it also the fault of the person who chooses to stay in an abusive relationship?(32:58) Why women hold themselves responsible for anything that goes wrong in the household and in relationships.(34:48) What is financial abuse? What is the right way to balance finances between couples?
(41:05) Can you counter manipulate somebody who is emotionally and psychologically manipulating you?
(42:54) Is it possible to heal yourself on your own without any help from a professional? Here's what you can do if you do not have enough funds to invest in therapy.
(45:07) Closing thoughts and message.