Cant Catch a Break

Cant Catch a Break

By DeeJay & Dr. Char Phillips JohnsonSociety & Culture
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  • convicted felon can sue for Discrimination ?

    And this right to fire for no reason is very unfair in every state. Who came up with this? Because it affects families, etc., call your elected officials and let them know how it has caused millions to be without a job that want to work.

    Yes, a convicted felon can sue for discrimination if they were denied employment or other opportunities due to their criminal record. 

    • Factors that may help your case 
    • ProcessYou can file a complaint with the EEOC or HCRC before filing a lawsuit. You can also consult a lawyer for advice. 
    • DamagesIf you win your case, you may be entitled to: 

      • The EEOC's E-RACE initiative focuses on addressing discrimination in the workplace, including arrest and conviction records. 

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      27 min
    • it is ok if you made mistakes in your life ?

      Researchers show that when you make it okay to make a mistake—called“mistake tolerance” in psychological literature—and you take the time to talk about what happened, why it’s a mistake (if the person hasn’t already seen that it was one), and how to avoid the same error in the future, people do change. When you shame people for their mistakes, however, research shows that they do not learn and, more importantly, they do not change.

      14 min
    • Feeling Left Out by Family, Friends, etc. what to do?

      What are you going to do about it? A person that sees it happen, or you do not care, or is it about me, myself, and I?

      Feeling left out by family is a complex emotional experience that can often leave us feeling isolated and confused. But by acknowledging these feelings, understanding the underlying dynamics, expressing our emotions constructively, and seeking support, we can navigate this emotional terrain with grace and resilience.

      Remember, this journey isn't about blaming others or yourself. It's about understanding, growth, and compassion. And while it's not an easy journey, it's one that can lead to profound personal transformation and a deeper understanding of ourselves and our families.

      So, if you're feeling left out by your family, know that you're not alone. There are resources, strategies, and supportive communities that can help you navigate these feelings and emerge stronger. It's a journey well worth taking, and I wish you strength and resilience as you embark on it.

      Additional resources for further reading:

      1. "The Dance of Connection: How to Talk to Someone When You're Mad, Hurt, Scared, Frustrated, Insulted, Betrayed, or Desperate" by Harriet Lerner
      2. "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy" by David D. Burns
      3. "Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect" by Jonice Webb.

        4. 24 min
      4. Feeling left out by family, friends what to do?

        There is a battle among one another; it can reach all over from the home, church, work, etc. It is what many true facts are that is not normal for no one because it even hit hard among young and older people, so what can be done to bring togetherness and unity?

        Feeling left out within your family can stem from a myriad of factors, and it's essential to understand the roots of this feeling to address it effectively. In my case, the feelings of exclusion emerged from a complex blend of shifting family dynamics, evolving personal identities, and inherent biases that run deep within the family structure.

        The first step towards healing is acknowledging the existence of these feelings without judgment. When we pay attention to our emotional landscape, we open the door to understanding, empathy, and ultimately, change.

        Family dynamics can be complex, and the feeling of being left out is often entangled with other issues. I remember feeling like a bystander at family gatherings, overshadowed by louder, more extroverted relatives. It was as if I were invisible, my thoughts and feelings disregarded.

        It's crucial to note that this isn't necessarily indicative of malicious intent on the part of family members. Often, they're unaware of the emotional damage their actions or inactions may cause. Having open conversations about these feelings can illuminate these blind spots, promoting understanding and fostering healthier relationships

        7 min
      5. The Power of Persuasion over others

        What do you use persuasion for, good or bad?

        The better solution is to act humble. Enter the discussion saying “hey, I might be wrong but…” And you will drop the guard of the person that you are trying to influence.

        Even if you know you are 100% correct, nobody likes being wrong and having it rubbed in their face. If the conversation is started with…

        “I might be wrong”, the people you’re attempting to influence will be far more open to admitting being wrong as well.

        20 min
      6. The power of Persuasion either Good or Bad ?

        Let us see how people get controlled by lies and deception even when others see it ?

        powerful and actionable rules to follow when you’re trying to influence someone and change their mind.
        When someone says “no,” it can be an incredible relief for them; it can feel like you’ve taken a weight right off their shoulders, and it also gives them the perception of control, which in turn allows them to drop the emotion from the discussion and come back to a more logical conversation.
        Next where people go wrong when trying to change someone elses mind is that they allow the conversation to escalate into an argument before they get to a point at which they can influence the other person.

        So how do we break through the emotional brick wall that people can put up when they “believe,” in “their gut,” that they’re correct? What do we need to do so that we can have a logical conversation and prove our point?

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        7 min
      7. Why do spend more on Christmas than taking care of your Health?

        This is one day that I have seen is a very stressful shopping time before Christmas. too much debt, stress, not sleeping, and many have become Depressed after the fact. Be wise: set a budget, tell yourself no if you cannot afford it for real, pray.


        People often spend more money on Christmas shopping because of social pressure to give "perfect" gifts, the festive atmosphere that encourages impulsive buying, and the stress of finding the right presents within a limited time frame, which can lead to health risks like increased anxiety, stress, and even physical strain from overexertion while shopping.  Key reasons for overspending at Christmas:

        • Social Pressure: The expectation to give impressive gifts to family and friends can lead to feeling obligated to spend more than one can afford, fearing judgment if they don't. 
        • Marketing and Festive Atmosphere: Retailers heavily market holiday deals and create a cheerful atmosphere that encourages impulse buying. 
        • Time Pressure: The close proximity to Christmas can lead to rushed shopping decisions, often resulting in buying items without careful consideration. 
        • "Keeping up with the Joneses":People may feel the need to buy expensive gifts to match what others are giving, contributing to a competitive gifting mentality. 
          • Stress and Anxiety:The pressure to find the perfect gift, coupled with financial concerns, can lead to significant stress and anxiety. 
          • Sleep Disturbances:Worrying about holiday shopping can disrupt sleep patterns. 
          • Physical Strain:Rushing through crowded shopping malls and carrying heavy bags can lead to physical discomfort and pain. 
          • Financial Stress:Overspending can lead to debt and financial strain, further adding to stress levels. 
            • Set a Budget: Create a clear budget and stick to it. 
            • Make a List: Plan your shopping in advance and prioritize who to buy for and what to get. 
            • Consider Experiences over Gifts: Explore gifting experiences like activities or quality time instead of material items. 
            • Shop Online: Utilize online shopping to avoid crowds and compare prices easily. 
            • Prioritize Self-Care: Make sure to get enough sleep, eat healthy meals, and exercise regularly during the holiday season
              • 30 min
            • what would you do if the Bible was not written ?

              I believe Sin would be justified in saying I can break all the Ten Commandments and worship idols.

              The Bible is comfortably the best-selling and most widely read book of all time, with more than five billion copies distributed worldwide. Statistically speaking, that’s about two Bibles for every Christian on Earth. But what would the world be like today if this particular book had never come into being?
              This is Unveiled, and today we’re answering the extraordinary question: what if the Bible was never written?



              13 min
            • it is ok to Seek out Therapy?

              we are living in these times were people are seeking out help like never before as the days approaches were the churches are not there to support like it once were so pray it is needed more

              If you’re considering therapy, you may be thinking about the possible drawbacks. Cost

               might be a concern for you. You might also be aware that therapy is often difficult. Trauma or other painful events from the past can be frightening to remember and discuss with someone. Working through challenges isn’t easy, and therapy isn’t always a quick fix. Make sure that when you’re ready to see a therapist that you can be honest with yourself and with your them.

              But if you’re willing to do the work, therapy can be rewarding. It’s a safe, judgment-free space where you can share anything, with a trained professional who is there to help.

              so if you see someone or know someone that is not happy with life at all talk to them because what is running in the mind is not Good

              pray for the families all over this world because the Holiday season might be Good for some but not all

              Pray

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              17 min
            • Did the America people Stop Fearing God

              A nation that does not fear God?

              In the U.S., belief in a deity is common even among the religiously unaffiliated – a group composed of those who identify themselves, religiously, as atheist, agnostic or “nothing in particular,” and sometimes referred to, collectively, as religious “ones.” Indeed, nearly

              Among U.S. adults with a high school education or less, fully two-thirds say they believe in God as described in the Bible. Far fewer adults who have obtained some college education
              The data also show that, compared with those with lower levels of educational attainment, college graduates are less likely to believe that God (or another higher power in the universe) is active and involved in the world and in their personal lives. For instance, while roughly half of college graduates

              17 min

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