Today, we're talking about dating after 30. And let me tell you… it hits different.

In your 20s, dating feels like an endless buffet — a lot of options, a lot of chaos, and a lot of emotional drama.

In your 30s, it's more like a tasting menu — smaller portions, but higher quality.

Let's discuss more shall we!

With love,

Nixalina.

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If you've ever thought, 'Why does he keep ruining this?' — grab a notebook, ladies. You're about to get a field guide."

With love,

Nixalina.

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The concept originated in Freudian psychoanalytic theory, where Sigmund Freud coined the term "Madonna-Whore complex" (or "psychic impotence") to describe men who are unable to feel sexual desire for a woman they love and respect - the Madonna - but can only be aroused by women they devalue or disrespect the Whore.

Let's discuss, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina.

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Nahhhhh mate, move along.

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I just...I cannot deal with this attitude towards oral sex on women.

Sigh. JUST SIGH.

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We throw the word soulmate around a lot — in movies, in songs, and in the quiet corners of late-night conversations. But when it really happens, when you meet someone who feels like home, you know there's something different about it. It's not just attraction or timing or luck. It's an unexplainable pull — a sense that your souls already knew each other long before your first tryst.

With love,

Nixalina.

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Spoiler alert - here are the 5 things I explain in this episode about what happens to me after I leave a toxic mofo:

1. Denial & Derail

2. Rumination & Revenge Bod

3. IDGAF

4. Peace & Penis

5. Locked IN

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Is it a good idea...ever?

Can it ever work out again, long term?

Let's discuss, shall we!

With love,

Nixalina.

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To anyone living through this as we speak - I hear you, I see you, I understand you and I am here for you.

With love,

Nixalina.

In modern slang, a "sigma female" refers to an independent, self-sufficient woman who operates outside of traditional social hierarchies, values her autonomy, and doesn't feel the need to conform or seek external validation.

Let's discuss this bad-ass b*tch in depth, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina.

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