Career Slay

What does self-leadership actually mean?

In this episode of the Career Slay Podcast, host Kelly Poquiz Burke interviews Elizabeth Lotardo, a consultant, LinkedIn Learning instructor, and author of 'Leading Yourself.' They discuss the importance of self-leadership, especially in uncertain times, and how mindset, behaviors, and relationships shape your career. Elizabeth shares practical mindset hacks, the significance of finding joy and meaning in work, and strategies for navigating challenging workplace dynamics. She emphasizes the power of agency in career development and the necessity of creating a fulfilling work experience. Even when you can’t control what’s happening in the economy, you can always lead yourself.

Learn more about Elizabeth’s work at elizabethlotardo.com

Grab a copy of “Leading Yourself” at https://a.co/d/8hPJ5Tm

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What does it take to thrive in one of the most high-pressure careers in the world—and then reinvent yourself on the other side of it?

In this episode of the Career Slay Podcast, host Kelly Poquiz Burke sits down with Cathyrine “Lilo” Armandie, retired U.S. Air Force officer turned Founder & CEO of GauxMax Strategies, a brand strategy and PR consulting firm. From flying the F-15E Strike Eagle to commanding hundreds of airmen to launching her own business, Lilo’s journey is a masterclass in resilience, purpose, and growth through discomfort.

Lilo shares her candid story of navigating burnout, identity, and career transition after 20 years of service. She opens up about what it’s like to lead in a male-dominated field, why teamwork is the ultimate “team sport,” and how she’s redefining success on her own terms.

If you’ve ever faced burnout, questioned your path, or wondered how to embrace the unknown with courage, this conversation will inspire you to lead with both grit and grace.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

• How resilience and adaptability fuel career transitions
• Leadership lessons from the cockpit (and why perfection is never the goal)
• The truth about burnout—and why even high achievers must pause
• Why embracing discomfort is key to growth and fulfillment
• How to redefine success beyond titles and achievements

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction
01:52 Cathyrine “Lilo” Armandie: A Journey of Resilience
05:18 From Criminology to Aviation: A Career Shift
10:15 Life as a Wizzo: Training and Responsibilities
12:02 Leadership Lessons from the Military
14:53 Navigating Bias in a Male-Dominated Field
19:03 The Importance of Purpose in Career
23:28 Transitioning to Civilian Life and New Ventures
27:10 Redefining Success: A New Perspective
29:54 Advice for Aspiring Aviators
32:23 Embracing the Unknown: Growth Through Discomfort
34:35 Summing Up a Career: Gratitude and Reflection

Guest Resources:

• CEO, GauxMax Strategies
• Host, Lies My Ego Told Me Podcast https://liesmyego.com/

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In this episode of the Career Slay podcast, Kelly Poquiz Burke interviews Justin Schneider, the Founder & CEO of Wolf & Shepherd, a hybrid footwear brand redefining comfort in dress shoes.

As a former All-American track and field athlete at the University Notre Dame studying industrial design, Justin discovered his passion for footwear early on, eventually designing shoes for Adidas and New Balance. There, he had a breakthrough—why not bring athletic comfort to dress shoes?

That idea became Wolf & Shepherd. Since 2015, Justin and his wife and co-CEO, Hope, have built the brand into a leader in the space, selling nearly 2 million pairs and expanding their lineup from casual to formal—all with performance-driven comfort at the core.

Justin shares his journey of building a footwear brand and emphasizes the importance of family support, having personal conviction and relentless tenacity as an entrepreneur. He discusses finding alignment between building a business and family life, the vision for the brand's future, and the significance of embracing risk and opportunity. Finally, Justin shares the advice he’d give to his younger self and as well as advice for founders and entrepreneurs.

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In this episode of Career Slay, host Kelly Poquiz Burke interviews Milam Miller, a leadership expert, keynote speaker, executive coach, and author of The Charisma Craft about career transitions, fulfillment, and authentic leadership.

Episode Highlights

• Milam's Career Journey: From working in tech startups and Fortune 500 companies to becoming an entrepreneur and career coach.
• Finding Fulfillment: Milam discusses how fulfillment comes from within rather than external achievements like titles or material possessions.
• Values Alignment: The importance of working at organizations where you feel a sense of belonging and purpose aligned with your values.
• Career Seasons Framework: Kelly introduces her framework “Sow, Slow, Grow” for understanding different career seasons.
• Transferable Skills: Discussion on how experience doesn't expire and the importance of recognizing transferable skills.

Key Quotes

• "Fulfillment actually comes from within. Fulfillment can come from so many different sources, and fulfillment can change." - Milam Miller
• "Invest in human connection." - Milam Miller
• "Trust yourself, just trust that it will all work out. If you're paying attention to the things you're doing, if you're living with intention, and if you have unwavering self belief, then you're going to figure it out." - Milam Miller

Connect With Us

• Follow @careerslay for more advice on career development, leadership, and professional growth.
• Follow @milam.miller for more insights on charisma and authentic leadership.
• Grab a copy of Milam Miller’s book, The Charisma Craft, Available now on Amazon: https://shorturl.at/0UgOU

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Does your ambition fade when you downshift your career to make room for motherhood?

In this episode of the Career Slay Podcast, host Kelly Poquiz Burke interviews Neha Ruch, founder of Mother Untitled and author of the bestselling book, The Power Pause: How to Plan a Career Break After Kids—and Come Back Stronger Than Ever. Neha discusses her journey of redefining success and ambition for women, particularly those navigating motherhood and career pauses. She also shares her personal experiences, the challenges she faced in her career, and how she transformed her career break into a powerful movement that empowers women to embrace their choices and redefine their identities. We discuss her book and dive deeper into the concept of 'Power Pause' and how women can leverage this time for personal growth and fulfillment.

Takeaways

• Neha Rush emphasizes that ambition evolves rather than disappears during career pauses.
• The importance of redefining success on personal terms, especially for mothers.
• Mother Untitled was born from Neha's desire to change the narrative around motherhood and career pauses.
• Women often feel pressured to justify their choices in motherhood and career.
• The concept of 'Power Pause' allows women to explore new interests while stepping back from paid work.
• Networking and community support are crucial during career transitions.
• Self-trust is essential for navigating career and family life.
• Women can maintain their ambitions and interests even while focusing on family.
• The journey from a blog to a book took time and persistence.
• Success is about aligning personal values with professional goals.

Link to The Power Pause Book: https://www.thepowerpause.com/

Follow Neha Ruch on Instagram: @neha_ruch

Book a free coaching discovery call with Kelly at www.careerslay.com

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In this episode, Dr. Anthony Randall shares his inspiring journey from a lively childhood being nicknamed “Action Ants” as a kid to a distinguished career as an Army Ranger, chaplain, coach, and bestselling author. He discusses the pivotal moments that shaped his life, including overcoming self-limiting beliefs about his writing and the transformative experiences of combat. Anthony emphasizes the importance of trusting the process of transformation and practicing excellence by aligning passion, purpose, and precision in leadership. He also shares insights from his work as the President and Founder of VanguardXXI, a leadership development company, and the significance of creating high-performance cultures. Finally, we also discuss the importance of maintaining a 'white belt mentality'—a mindset of humility and continuous learning. No matter how seasoned a leader you are, there’s always room for growth.

Check out Vanguard XXI and Anthony's best-selling book Practicing Excellence. 

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In this episode of the Career Slay Podcast, host Kelly Poquiz Burke interviews Catherine Connolly, an award-winning entrepreneur and best-selling author. They discuss Catherine's journey from a young entrepreneur and cofounder alongside her brothers to leading a successful tech company, the challenges she faced scaling her company, The Meet Group, into a $500 million dollar company, and her insights on redefining success. Catherine emphasizes the importance of connections, purpose, and resilience in achieving a fulfilling career. She also shares her experiences in writing her book Designing Success, which offers practical tools for managing burnout and creating a supportive work environment. 

Download a free digital copy of her book at: http://cconnelly.me/careerslay

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In this episode of the Career Slay Podcast, host Kelly Poquiz Burke interviews Dr. Chris Sebastian, a pediatrician who transitioned from a career in graphic design to medicine. Dr. Sebastian shares his unique journey, emphasizing the importance of following one's passion, the value of mentorship, and the impact of serving others. For him, being a counselor at Camp Sweeney, a summer camp for kids with Type 1 Diabetes sparked his transition into medicine. He discusses the challenges and rewards of changing careers, the significance of empathy in healthcare, and offers advice for those considering a path in medicine. His story is proof that changing your mind isn't failure—it's growth. If you’re wondering whether it’s too late to pivot, let this be your sign: it’s not.

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In this episode of the Career Slay Podcast, host Kelly Poquiz Burke sits down with Simon Rurka, founder and CEO of The Simon Assessment, for a powerful conversation about boldness, authenticity, and unlocking potential. From a supportive childhood in London to studying at Cambridge to leading a $9 billion business at Intel, Simon shares the pivotal moments that shaped his leadership journey. He opens up about the challenges of corporate culture, how organizations often unintentionally shrink high-potential employees, and why our unique boldness should be preserved—not tamed—as we grow in our careers.

Simon also introduces The Simon Assessment, his latest venture designed to help companies identify and eliminate stagnation, while creating environments where people can truly thrive. This episode is filled with insight on leading with authenticity, taking risks, and celebrating the differences that enhance team performance.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re trying to fit into a box, this conversation is your call to take the risk, lead with heart, and remember: your edge is your superpower.

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Have you ever felt like you were destined for greatness?

In this episode, host Kelly Poquiz Burke interviews Tara Wilson, CEO and founder of Tara Wilson Agency. Tara shares her inspiring journey from a small town in Arkansas where she fostered an entrepreneurial spirit as a child to becoming a successful founder of an experiential marketing agency. Her career evolved from finance to event planning to experiential marketing, demonstrating how you can reinvent yourself multiple times. Tara talks about finding your passion and recognizing your transferable skills to successfully make a pivot. She emphasizes the importance of leadership, core values, and empowering women through her platform, FierceLab. We touch upon on overcoming doubts, embracing risk, and finding joy in leadership. Through the twists and turns, Tara’s career journey showcases the power of owning your destiny.

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