How to be Influential to Others

Hi everyone, Carl Gould here with your #70secondCEO. Just a little over a one minute investment every day for a lifetime of results.

 

Let's talk a little bit about how we can influence another person. Because at the end of the day, we're gonna go from potential to performance. But the idea here is that you will be influential to another person, alright? Now building rapport and ultimately influencing something, somebody, it's a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy, that’s a bit of an automatic reflex. In other words, wired into our central nervous system is a safety mechanism that tells us if are we in rapport with our surroundings or not. Are we safe in our surroundings or not? Okay, so if you want to influence another person to your point of view or influence them to so they take action in any way, you have to make them feel safe and the way that they do that is they have to decide if they like you, or not in the way that you're thinking like, you know, not like I like to spend time with that person. But on some level am I like that person? Do we have something in common? Right? So on some level, your audience has the feel that they are like you.

 

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