This is a brilliant , gem filled conversation about defining emotional intelligence. In this conversation we discuss the importance of being emotionally intelligent , we discuss how that influences how we show up in relationships, friendships and our work spaces . We also discuss learning when to react and when not to react to a situation. Also how to appropriately react when one is triggered . This carrrnversations happens with my good friend of many years Thobani , who is also an Author of Leading Through The Mirror , an architect ad a TED X curator . He brings lots of gems and as with all other carrrnversations it is lots of fun.