In this episode, Jesse Allen sits down with worship leader Jake Stemo to talk about surrendering your plans for God's. Jake shares the word that moved his family to rural Kansas almost 15 years ago, why hearing God and obeying Him are two different things, and what faith has actually cost him along the way.

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Is it possible to know about God and still not know him?

In this episode John Enderby tells his story. Taking a Sunday job at 16 so he wouldn't have to go to church. Meeting an insurance agent who had less money than him but a lot more joy. Coming home one night, falling across the bed, and telling his wife he couldn't do it anymore. And what finally changed after all of it. It's a conversation about the difference between knowing about God and actually knowing him. John shares his story of seeking God and knowing Him!

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How do you hear the Holy Spirit, recognize God’s voice, and grow into a deeper relationship with Him?

In this episode of the Carry The Fire Podcast, Jesse Allen sits down with Randy Friesen, author of “SQ: The Transforming Potential of Spiritual Intelligence,” to explore what it means to live fully immersed in the presence and work of the Holy Spirit.

Randy explains spiritual intelligence, how Christians can discern the voice of God, and why surrender is essential for genuine spiritual growth. Jesse also shares how Randy’s relationship with the Holy Spirit challenged his understanding of normal Christianity—and led to a life-changing encounter with God.

In this conversation, you’ll discover:

• What spiritual intelligence means
• How to hear and recognize the Holy Spirit
• Why many Christians remain on the surface spiritually
• How surrender deepens your relationship with God
• What it looks like to cooperate with the Holy Spirit
• How believers can grow in obedience and become more like Jesus

If you have ever wondered how to hear God’s voice, develop intimacy with the Holy Spirit, or experience deeper Christian spiritual growth, this conversation is for you.

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What if the questions you ask are shaping the depth of your life?

In this episode of the Carry The Fire Podcast, Jesse sits down with J.R. Briggs to talk about the power of asking better questions — in parenting, leadership, prayer, relationships, and our walk with God.

J.R. shares how Jesus used questions to draw people out, how curiosity can become a form of love, and why wisdom, courage, and compassion are essential for anyone who wants to lead well. This conversation moves from practical parenting questions to deep spiritual honesty, lament, loneliness, vulnerability, and learning to trust God even when He does not answer every question the way we hoped.

If you want to grow as a Christian leader, father, husband, pastor, disciple, or friend, this episode will challenge you to slow down, listen better, and become the kind of person who helps others feel seen, known, heard, and loved.

In this conversation:
• Why Jesus asked so many questions
• How to ask better questions as a parent
• Why curiosity matters in Christian leadership
• How questions create deeper relationships
• Why love often feels inefficient but is deeply effective
• How to pray honest questions before God
• Why wisdom, courage, and compassion belong together

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What does it look like to follow God when obedience leads you out of your comfort zone?

In this episode of Carry The Fire, Jesse Allen sits down with Philip Sarnecki, candidate for Kansas Governor, for a conversation about faith, courage, calling, business, family, leadership, and stepping into the unknown with obedience.

Philip shares his story of growing up in rural central Illinois, learning the value of hard work from his parents, building a career in business, and eventually sensing God redirecting his path toward public leadership.

This conversation is not just about politics. It is about what happens when God gives a person a burden, confirms it through prayer, family, wise counsel, and courage, then asks them to move forward in faith.

Jesse and Philip talk about fear, obedience, Christian leadership, Kansas, revival, government, business as ministry, and why courage is often required before change begins.

If you have ever wrestled with your calling, wondered whether God can use you outside of traditional ministry, or felt the pull to step into something bigger than your comfort zone, this episode will challenge and encourage you.

Topics covered:
Faith and courage
Christian leadership
Business as ministry
Kansas governor race
Hearing God’s voice
Leaving your comfort zone
Obedience and calling
Revival in Kansas
Government and biblical responsibility
Family, legacy, and leadership

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In this episode of Carry The Fire, Jesse Allen sits down with Jacob Hall for a deep conversation about the battle for the human heart, the next generation, and the transforming love of God.

They unpack:
• Why the enemy wars against the heart
• The difference between religion and relationship
• How God speaks through the heart, not just the mind
• Why teenagers are starving to be seen, heard, and valued
• The power of presence in discipleship
• Conviction vs condemnation
• Why love is the antidote to fear
• How to disciple the next generation with humility, truth, and grace

This conversation is for parents, youth pastors, leaders, mentors, and anyone who wants to see a consecrated generation raised up in the presence of God.

“Religion says: You’re bad, be better.
The Kingdom says: You’re loved, come closer.”

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Every man wants to leave a legacy… but what if your greatest legacy isn’t your career, your money, or your accomplishments?

In this powerful conversation, Pastor Aaron Wallace delivers a wake-up call for fathers, husbands, and men everywhere: your children will remember your presence far more than your success.

This episode dives deep into:

Fatherhood and legacy
Presence vs provision
God as Father
Raising children with intentionality
Breaking generational cycles
Why success at work can still mean failure at home

If you’re a father, husband, leader, or man pursuing purpose… this message could change your priorities forever.

Your name at work may fade.
But your family will remember who you were.

Be present. Build legacy. Make your name mean something at home.

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In this episode, Jesse and Trent Bliss have a raw and hope filled conversation about freedom from sexual sin and walking in purity.

Trent shares his personal journey of freedom from pornography and shame, revealing how confession, safe community, fasting, and abiding in the love of Jesus led to real transformation. Together, they expose the lie that says you are alone in this struggle and unpack why sexual sin is not just a behavior issue but a heart issue rooted in love, intimacy, and pleasure that only God can truly satisfy.

This episode explores the difference between conviction and condemnation, why shame keeps people bound, and how walking in purity leads to spiritual authority and freedom. If you have felt stuck, hidden, or exhausted from trying to be better, this conversation is an invitation to stop hiding and come close to Jesus.

Freedom is possible. You are not alone. If you would like prayer or someone to talk to, reach out. We would love to walk with you.

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What happens when success, ministry, and performance replace intimacy with God?

In this episode, Jesse sits down with Phil Kelley for a raw and honest conversation about addiction, identity, confession, and surrender. Phil shares his journey from early ministry success and public platforms to private struggle and how God met him with mercy in the middle of it all.

This episode explores the pressure to perform, the fear of being exposed, the power of confession, and the freedom that comes from surrendering control. It’s a story of discovering that God’s love isn’t earned and that healing often comes through community and honesty.

If you’re tired of striving, hiding, or trying to be “good enough,” this conversation is for you. There is hope, freedom, and grace in the light.

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In this episode, Jesse and Matthew unpack powerful Kingdom lessons from Matthew’s first 50K race. They explore perseverance, preparing for the unknown, running at God’s pace, and leaning into His grace when weakness sets in.

Through honest storytelling and Scripture, this conversation reveals how the Christian life mirrors a long distance race. Learning to run your race, resisting comparison, embracing seasons of rest, staying faithful to God’s assignments, and discerning when it is time to go. They dive into themes of peace, surrender, trust, community, and how God’s grace often meets us right in the pain cave.

If you have felt discouraged, sidelined, or tempted to quit, this episode is an encouragement to keep going. Fix your eyes on Jesus, trust His timing, and remember that you are not disqualified.

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