Sasha and I like to associate happiness with success. If you're happy...you must be doing it all right. If you aren't, don't worry there's plenty of time to figure things out in your life. There's no such thing as a deadline AND IF THERE WAS, IS DEF NOT TURNING 30 YOU GUYS!
You can be 35, 40 or even 52 and still be trying to figure things out in your life and for your long-term goals. Whether that means; kids, career, a house, traveling the world for 6 months, ending a relationship or a friendship. Don't forget to be proud of every little thing you do that will help you become a better version of yourself. Don't forget to be kind to yourself and to others in the process of understanding everyone's timing is different.