Is couples therapy safe with a narcissist—or just another trap? Here’s what you need to know.Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson🔗 Is couples therapy safe with a narcissist—or just another trap? Here’s what you need to know.Join our support group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup----- Should you go to couples therapy with a narcissistic spouse? What if they manipulate the therapist—or use the process to hurt you even more? And what about involving a priest or spiritual director? Could that backfire too?In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, we answer these crucial questions and uncover the hidden dangers of seeking couples therapy or spiritual guidance when narcissistic abuse is involved. While therapy is often seen as a path to healing, it can become a tool of manipulation in the wrong hands—especially when the therapist or advisor doesn’t recognize narcissistic behavior. So what should you do?You’ll learn: • Why couples therapy with a narcissist often leads to secondary abuse • How narcissists can twist the narrative—even with professionals • What you should do and why individual therapy is often the safest and most effective path forward firstYour healing matters. Tune in for clear, faith-informed guidance and find the strength to walk the path of true recovery.⏱ Timestamps – Catholic Narcissist Recovery00:01 – Welcome + introducing today’s topic: Is couples therapy with a narcissist dangerous?00:31 – Can involving a priest or retreat be risky too? Why spiritual guidance must be discerned carefully01:15 – Narcissists in therapy: master manipulators who can charm the therapist01:55 – The danger of therapist-narcissist alliances (coalition-building explained)02:25 – Why many therapists fall for the twisted truth03:09 – What happens when therapists believe the narcissist? How it becomes unsafe03:24 – How narcissists weaponize your vulnerability in therapy04:04 – When therapy makes things worse: why individual work is often safer04:35 – What ethical therapists look for and how they protect victims05:25 – How real healing begins: narcissist must do deep inner work first05:49 – Empathy for those hurt by therapy experiences06:07 – Feeling trapped in marriage: why “no other option” thinking is dangerous07:16 – The safest next step: seek individual support before involving the narcissist07:48 – Final thoughts + thank you to Dr. Jameson Natwick“Be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.”— Matthew 10:16

Why Do You Feel So Much Grief After Narcissistic Abuse? Catholic Answer https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

It’s not just anger or frustration—you’re mourning something real. You're mourning a loss of who you thought someone was, a loss of a false reality, of false love, a loss of yourself.

But God has a purpose for your tears.

🔹 Why grief happens (even if you’re more angry than sad).

🔹 What you’re really grieving: Lost love? Lost time? Yourself?🔹 How to process grief in a healthy, faith-filled way.

🔹 Jesus cried. You can too. Grieving isn’t weakness—it’s healing.

🙏 God will turn your tears into joy. You’re not alone in this.

📌 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery support group:

Key Points:

• The Unexpected Grief of Narcissistic Abuse

• What Are You Really Mourning? Lost Love, Time, or Self?

• How Suppressed Emotions Resurface in Healing

• The Physical Side of Grief: Where Do You Feel It?

• Why Anger Often Masks Deeper Sadness

• How to Process Grief With Faith & Prayer

• Jesus Wept: Why Crying is Not Weakness

• Encouragement: God Will Turn Your Tears Into Joy

Key Takeaways:

✔️ Grief is not just for death. You’re mourning what you thought was real.

✔️ Anger often hides deeper sadness. Allow yourself to feel it fully.

✔️ Your body holds grief. Pay attention to where you feel it.

✔️ Healing takes time, but it’s temporary. God has a plan for your tears.

✔️ Even Jesus cried.

Grieving is not weakness—it’s part of healing.

Bible Verse for Reflection:

📖 Psalm 30:11 – “You have turned my mourning into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy.”

Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time, but you are not alone in your grief. Let yourself feel, cry, and heal—because God is with you. 💙

Think forgiveness means reconciliation? Think again. This will change how you heal.

How do you know you've truly forgiven the narcissist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LRr7k6-JrMM&t=13s

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💚 It’s time to step into freedom! Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group:

https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

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In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, we uncover the 5 biggest lies about forgiveness that are keeping you stuck in pain, confusion, or toxic cycles after narcissistic abuse.

You’ll learn what forgiveness really is, why it’s not the same as reconciliation, and how to let go without enabling the narcissist or minimizing the harm done.

If you’ve struggled with forgiving someone who’s deeply wounded you, this episode is for you.

🙏 Bonus Resource: I mention Encounter Ministries, a powerful Catholic prayer ministry that has helped many (myself included) experience real emotional and spiritual healing. https://encounterschool.org/inner-healing-freedom/

🕊️ Remember: Forgiveness is for you, not them.

God wants your heart free and full of peace.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same thing

• You can forgive without tolerating abuse

• Forgiveness doesn’t mean they “got away with it”—God is just

• Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling

• Lack of hatred doesn’t always mean you’ve already forgiven

Where do we learn healthy love and relationships from after narcissistic abuse?💚 It’s time to step into freedom! Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroupPerfect! Here’s your updated episode outline with the timestamps you provided:------------- After narcissistic abuse, learning to trust and build healthy relationships can seem impossible. But as Catholics, we have a perfect model to guide us—the Holy Family. In this episode, we explore how Mary, Joseph, and Jesus can teach us the true meaning of love, sacrifice, and healthy attachments.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Healing After Narcissistic AbuseWelcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery—where we help you reclaim your life after narcissistic abuse and focus on healing and healthy relationships.01:01 – The Holy Family as a ModelWhy Mary, Joseph, and Jesus are the perfect models for healthy love and relationships.01:19 – Joseph’s Stability vs. Narcissistic FathersThe contrast between Joseph’s protective nature and the self-centered, toxic behaviors of a narcissistic father.02:41 – Mary’s Receptivity vs. Narcissistic MothersHow Mary’s nurturing qualities differ from the possessiveness and emotional manipulation of a narcissistic mother.06:10 – The Spousal Relationship of Joseph and MaryHow Joseph and Mary’s relationship exemplifies mutual sacrifice, respect, and trust—something we should aspire to in our own relationships.07:06 – God’s Love: The Ultimate ModelUnderstanding how God’s love, as described in Scripture, is the perfect model for healthy relationships.08:12 – Practical Steps for HealingHow to learn healthy relationships from the Holy Family, using scripture and prayer for healing.Bible Verse:“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” — 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (NIV)

Do not make these dating mistakes after ending a narcissistic relationship...

If you’ve been with a narcissist, chances are there’s a pattern or wound that’s making you repeat the same mistakes.

So, here’s the first step: STOP dating!

Dating after narcissistic abuse can feel overwhelming and confusing, but as Catholics, we are called to heal and trust God’s guidance in every aspect of our lives—especially relationships.

In this video, we dive into why a “dating detox” is essential for your healing, how to break free from destructive patterns, and how to approach dating with clarity, discernment, and strong boundaries. You don’t have to navigate this alone—God is with you, guiding you through this important journey toward healthy, holy relationships.

Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Healing After Narcissistic Abuse01:20 – Why You Need a Dating Detox05:30 – Taking Time to Heal with God– When Is It Actually Time to Date?– Recognizing Red Flags and Moving Slowly– The Importance of Chastity and Boundaries– Dating with Discernment, Not Desperation– How the Holy Family Models Healthy Relationships– Final Thoughts: Trust God in Your Healing Journey

Bible Verse:“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

How the heck can we be grateful for narcissistic abuse?!

How can we even have joy during the intense suffering of dealing with a narcissist?

Well good news - nothing is impossible for Jesus!Suffering can feel endless, especially after narcissistic abuse.

But God never wastes pain—He wants to transform it into something beautiful.

In this episode, Chris joins us to discuss the power of gratitude, finding evidence of God’s presence, and embracing joy even in the darkest seasons.

We’ll cover:

✅ Practical ways to practice gratitude

✅ How to see God working in your suffering

✅ Why joy is the best antidote to narcissistic abuse

✅ How serving others can transform your healingJoin us on this journey of faith and healing.

You’re not alone—there is hope, joy, and purpose in every season.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Welcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery

00:15 - Why gratitude is essential for healing

00:45 - Finding something to be grateful for—even in suffering

01:30 - The power of an evidence journal to see God’s hand

03:59 - The Examen Prayer and how it helps heal your mindset

04:27 - Satan’s tactics: isolation and negativity

04:46 - How to profit spiritually from your suffering

05:16 - Asking God for supernatural joy

05:59 - Recognizing what is from God vs. what is from the enemy

06:42 - Breaking free from toxic thoughts and embracing truth0

7:06 - How serving others can bring unexpected healing

08:22 - The power of community and breaking isolation

09:06 - Finding joy and hope even in narcissistic abuse recovery

10:05 - Why joy is the best antidote to dealing with a narcissist

“You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have loosed my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness.” — Psalm 30:11

Resources:

Examen Prayer

Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group

💬 Let us know in the comments: What’s one thing you’re grateful for today?📩 Need more support? Join our community for healing and encouragement.

Struggling to understand why God allowed narcissistic abuse? Discover His plan for healing & freedom.

💚 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

💚 Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick for therapy: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

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Do you ever wonder why God allowed you to endure the pain and confusion of narcissistic abuse? Have you questioned if there’s a purpose behind the suffering? In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, Dr. Jameson Natwick and I explore how God can use your pain for healing, transformation, and spiritual growth.

We discuss:

✅ How suffering can lead you closer to God

✅ The purpose behind pain and how to process it

✅ Practical steps for healing from narcissistic abuse

✅ How faith can help you break toxic generational patternsDon’t let your suffering define you—God has a greater plan for your healing and freedom.

Resources:

💚 Blog post: https://catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/post/strength-in-weakness-healing-after-narcissistic-abuse

💚 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

💚 Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick for therapy: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

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Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction: Why does God allow narcissistic abuse?

00:24 – The deeper question: Why does God allow pain & suffering?

03:31 – Turning pain into purpose: My personal journey

06:00 – Wrestling with God: How suffering can lead to transformation

07:58 – Finding gratitude in suffering: St. Padre Pio’s wisdom

08:34 – Accepting suffering vs. seeking it: A biblical perspective

09:17 – Trusting God’s plan: Romans 8:28

10:29 – Strength in weakness: 2 Corinthians 12:9-10

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✨ “We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.” — Romans 8:28

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💚 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

💚 Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick for therapy: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

Trapped in a toxic marriage? Chris shares how she left after 28 years and found healing in Christ.

💚 Join our Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

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Leaving a narcissistic marriage is one of the hardest things you can face—especially when your faith teaches you to honor the sanctity of marriage. You may wonder: Does God want me to stay? Will He provide if I leave? The guilt and fear can feel paralyzing.

In this episode, Chris, a member of the Catholic Narcissist Recovery community, vulnerably shares her powerful journey of leaving a 28-year marriage. She opens up about how she overcame guilt and shame, how she learned to trust God’s perfect timing, and how she found true healing.

If you feel trapped in a toxic marriage and are struggling to discern the right path, this episode will give you some clarity, encouragement, and hope.

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Key Takeaways:

✅ How to discern God’s will when you’re in a toxic marriage

✅ Overcoming fear and trusting God’s provision

✅ Biblical wisdom for navigating narcissistic abuse

✅ Practical steps to heal and rebuild your life in faith

If this episode resonates with you, be sure to subscribe and share with someone who needs to hear this. 💛

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00:00 - Welcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery

00:26 - Meet Chris & her journey to healing

00:37 - How Chris found CNR & the role of community

02:13 - The power of healing together

02:46 - Chris’ 28-year marriage & her struggles

04:59 - The moment Chris knew it was time to leave

06:44 - Taking the first steps to freedom

08:05 - Guilt, shame & divorce as a Catholic

10:50 - How God’s timing helped Chris heal

11:12 - Advice for women in toxic marriages

12:34 - Making a safe exit & seeking counsel

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💚 Join our Narcissist Recovery Support Group and chat with Chris and me: ⁠https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup⁠

What if a narcissist could change? Can they heal, or are they forever stuck in their patterns?

💚 It’s time to step into freedom! Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

📌 Connect with Dr. Jameson: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

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In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, I’m joined by Dr. Jameson Natwick, Marriage and Family Therapist, to answer the question: Can a narcissist truly change?

We explore the clinical and spiritual aspects of transformation, the role of pride, boundaries, and God’s grace, and how healing is possible—but not in the way you might think.

If you’re struggling in a relationship with a narcissist, this episode will give you hope, clarity, and practical wisdom for your journey.

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Resources:

📌 Want more Catholic-based healing support? Join our free support group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

📌 Connect with Dr. Jameson: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

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⏰ Timestamps:

00:00 - Welcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery

00:18 - Can a narcissist actually change?

01:12 - The spectrum: NPD vs. narcissistic traits

02:40 - The hard truth about change and therapy

04:15 - Why narcissists resist change & how pride plays a role

05:32 - The power of boundaries in helping a narcissist change

06:41 - A personal story: Holding boundaries & seeing a narcissist transform

08:49 - Final thoughts: Healing, faith, and standing strong

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Luke 18:27: “What is impossible with man is possible with God.”

Why do narcissists torment their victims? The shocking truth—they actually enjoy it!Join our community: https://www.youtube.com/@CatholicNarcissistRecovery?sub_confirmation=1

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What if I told you that narcissists don’t see their actions the way you do? They manipulate, lie, and hurt others—but in their minds, they’re just doing what’s “necessary” and what is 'normal'.

In this episode, Dr. Jameson Natwick helps us understand why narcissists behave the way they do, how their disorder develops, and what that means for your healing.

Key Takeaways:

✅ The deep insecurity driving narcissists’ actions

✅ The role of nature vs. nurture in developing NPD

✅ Why narcissists struggle with empathy and accountability

✅ How boundaries help expose their behavior

If you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or desperate for answers, this episode will give you clarity on why narcissists do what they do—and how you can break free.

📌 Resources & Community: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup

📌 Connect with Dr. Jameson: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

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0:00 - Intro: Why do narcissists behave the way they do?

0:21 - Dr. Jameson Natwick’s insights on narcissistic behavior

1:30 - Theories on how narcissistic personality disorder develops

3:40 - Why narcissists fear being wrong or vulnerable

5:50 - Are narcissists aware they hurt others?

7:56 - Nature vs. nurture: What causes narcissism?

9:19 - Why narcissists lack empathy and manipulate others

10:26 - Setting boundaries: The best way to hold a narcissist accountable

11:20 - Final thoughts & scripture reflection (Matthew 7:15-16)

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📖 “Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them.” - Matthew 7:15-16