Cecilia Tan, a leather community activist since 1991, discusses some vital things to consider when agreeing to play with a new partner. She explains that learning how to negotiate for your own needs is a vital skill for any submissive or bottom. Finally she talks about "blame", and how to negotiate the desire to stay in ‘sub-space’ while still communicating about physical or psychological limits and needs in order to prevent more serious consequences.

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