The Kink Academy Podcast

Thanks to the wonders of technology it's easier than ever to stay close to someone even when they're far away. However, when you're kinky, there are still some "best practices" for keeping a relationship hot and fresh.

Princess Kali and Resa Amnesia talk about how to keep both your emotions and your bodies happy and kinky for all kinds of relationships. This podcast is filled with solid tips and practical tricks for you and your partners.

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Selina Minx explains why negotiating within power exchange relationships can make it difficult to be honest with your partner.

She outlines both the reasons and the necessity for being able to clearly express your boundaries and needs when negotiating, and suggests on a few strategies to try including both verbal and nonverbal cues for negotiation.

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This podcast has experts in power exchange talking about a key skill for power exchange.

First Penny Barber outlines various reasons why a submissive might challenge a dominant and explains several different legitimate responses – in hope of creating the best possible outcome.

Then Sarah Sloane discusses spoken and unspoken expectations for both sides and shares ideas for a healthy, productive relationship.

Last, Mollena Williams explains how it is possible to work through issues even from within the D/s dynamic itself, keeping in mind that both sides are human beings first and their roles second.

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Are you shy? Or do you just need some polish to your "game"? Kink Academy experts Dan & Dawn Williams, Selena Minx, Alice in Bondageland, and Arden Leigh all weigh in.

Learn what separates "seductive" from "coercive", how to use your words and body language to express your desires, and why flirting doesn't stop when you're in a relationship.

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Wondering how you can feel good about watching porn? How to find the "good" kind? Or even how it can be used to deepen the intimacy of your relationships? This podcast has a variety of sex educators who tell you how:

• Andre Shakti and Dylan Ryan talk frankly about the difficulties that can arise when you are trying to talk about pornography with your partner.  
• Sinnamon Love helps guys navigate the tricky waters of choosing porn to share with their partners.
• Jacq Jones dispels the myth that porn watching is an unhealthy sign in a relationship, and also has some suggestions for how to find good  porn, both in quality and production.
• Dr. Patti Britton discusses the essential nature of porn, highlighting the various ways porn can help improve the quality of sexual relationships.

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Dan & Dawn Williams introduce the foundations of Master/slave (M/s) relationships during this four-part podcast. They define key terms, underscore consent, and discuss gender, personality, and decision-making.

Dan & Dawn also share some lessons learned from classic personal development principles: Think it, say it, write it, do it! They talk about how important it is to identify your wants, needs, and desires in the power exchange relationship and the courage to honestly express them in order to develop core principles for a working relationship.

It comes down to simple advice: Do It! Live the life you fantasize about! They also offer practical advice on how to maintain it and how ritual can create a foundation for hot and sustainable power exchange.

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Ashley talks about some of the preconceptions and shame that can come along with the idea of phone sex, but she also talks about how to overcome them. She gives you some concrete examples of how to ask for what you want in a way that will establish boundaries, consent, and sexiness with your partner. Then she goes into the “how-to”, including setting the scene, using your voice, and most important of all: figuring out what to say!

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In this series, Ducky tackles several common problems with long-term relationships, such as: falling into the same old habits sexually, dealing with sex drive, broadening our understanding of sex and hormones like oxytocin, and even simple ways to improve it: compliments!

She explains the basic human psychology behind why we slip into a routine with our sexuality, even if that’s “tonight we’re going to do it on the chandelier again“. A rut is a rut, and if you’re looking to change things up a bit Ducky has some solid suggestions you can try out right away.

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Ignacio defines sex, gender, gender identity/expression/attribution, sexual orientation and identity, as well as transgender and queer. Then they talk pronouns: They challenge society’s assumption of the gender binary (e.g., only using she, he, her, him, his, hers) and offers several gender neutral pronoun options (e.g., the singular they, them, their; hir, ze, zie). Ignacio acknowledges the complexities yet encourages both practice and ways to determine the pronouns acceptable to the person in question.

Using both personal experience and an understanding of the vast diversity of others’ experiences, they highlight the vital import of naming body parts and talking about such names with your partner(s). Since terminology varies considerably, it is critical to understand your partners’ feelings about their bodies; and understanding leads to good negotiation, connection, and fun!

They continues the transqueering your sex series with a comparison of fantasy and reality. They asks many questions to help spur self-reflection and increase self-awareness. Ignacio also helps with the conversation and negotiation with persons outside the gender binary.

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Barak and Brat Sheba discuss “Mini-Scenes” in Part 1. They define these brief play scenes, provide some examples, and discuss the important preparation for them.

Jillian of Locked in Steel discusses chastity during part 2. She highlights the many reasons for chastity play: to exchange power, to be in bondage, to show fidelity, to increase devotion, and many more! Jillian also notes some of the practical concerns about chastity belts and mentions price ranges. She also introduces some of the topics that she’ll cover in upcoming videos.

In Part 3, Minx Grrl introduces animal role play. She responds to frequently asked questions about such play: What is the point? What activities can I do? Do I need equipment? Minx Grrl answers additional questions too – with some emphasis on the relationship between human animals and furries.

Hear more about a wide variety of kink and sexuality topics at www.KinkAcademy.com.