Ignacio defines sex, gender, gender identity/expression/attribution, sexual orientation and identity, as well as transgender and queer. Then they talk pronouns: They challenge society’s assumption of the gender binary (e.g., only using she, he, her, him, his, hers) and offers several gender neutral pronoun options (e.g., the singular they, them, their; hir, ze, zie). Ignacio acknowledges the complexities yet encourages both practice and ways to determine the pronouns acceptable to the person in question.

Using both personal experience and an understanding of the vast diversity of others’ experiences, they highlight the vital import of naming body parts and talking about such names with your partner(s). Since terminology varies considerably, it is critical to understand your partners’ feelings about their bodies; and understanding leads to good negotiation, connection, and fun!

They continues the transqueering your sex series with a comparison of fantasy and reality. They asks many questions to help spur self-reflection and increase self-awareness. Ignacio also helps with the conversation and negotiation with persons outside the gender binary.

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Barak and Brat Sheba discuss “Mini-Scenes” in Part 1. They define these brief play scenes, provide some examples, and discuss the important preparation for them.

Jillian of Locked in Steel discusses chastity during part 2. She highlights the many reasons for chastity play: to exchange power, to be in bondage, to show fidelity, to increase devotion, and many more! Jillian also notes some of the practical concerns about chastity belts and mentions price ranges. She also introduces some of the topics that she’ll cover in upcoming videos.

In Part 3, Minx Grrl introduces animal role play. She responds to frequently asked questions about such play: What is the point? What activities can I do? Do I need equipment? Minx Grrl answers additional questions too – with some emphasis on the relationship between human animals and furries.

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Barak & Brat Sheba introduce brat play during this three-minute video. They discuss and demonstrate some of the core elements of brat play (e.g., humor, banter, etc.) and also note what brat play is not.

They continue with a series of questions. Do you get hit often with your own shoe? Do you laugh a lot at your top or bottom and do they laugh back? Brat play is all about energy, and they cover it thoroughly.

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Mistress Shae Flanigan introduces sploshing, emphasizing the sensations involved in such messy play, discussing safety, techniques, and much more.

Ms. Cherries Jubalie introduces “switching.” She defines the relevant terms in power exchange relationships and hones in on the term switch and some of the aspects of the switch experience.

Mistress Simone talks about Domestic Discipline with the one overarching factor that goes throughout this kind of play: NO WARM UP. She elaborates on the “consensual non-consent” with descriptions of the negotiated scenarios that facilitate this kind of play. With the outline in place, this makes a great start for learning about the fun of domestic discipline.

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Dr. Patti Britton explains in this clip how our erotic triggers for arousal are rooted in the five senses. Male, female, or other, you can learn more about what turns you on by exploring the wealth of stimuli available, from lotions to dirty talk to erotica.

If your relationship seems to be stuck in a rut, Jacq Jones is here in part 2 to recommend a “Discovery Date” to bring some playfulness and a spirit of experimentation to the bedroom. Whether you’re curious about something you just read in an erotica story or want to use the “Discovery Date Form” to try some new things, she can help you set up and enjoy an unforgettable, educational, and fun evening with your partner.

Dr. Richard Sprott discusses the origins of fetishes in part 3. Based on a Freudian understanding of sexual development, he explains the roots and nature of sexual attraction as well as the idea of fetishes.

Dr. Sprott talks more on the origins of fetishes during part 4. He again looks back to our childhood years, explaining the importance of the couple years just prior to puberty. He connects these years to those formative ages of three to seven, and notes how these early years help create the primal images that can drive our sexuality.

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This podcast covers a wide range of kinks. In part one, Eve Minax takes a moment with her newly-mummified Ed to talk about some of the sensations and enjoyable aspects. From the sensual and meditative to the orgasmic and giggly, mummification can offer a wide range of fun.

“Luke the Perv” is Mistress Servalan’s partner for the zentai series and, in part two, he speaks up for the first time. He explains how much he loves both the tactile and psychological sensation of the suit on many different levels. He also talks about the more practical aspects, such as the variety, durability and cost of a zentai suit collection.

In part 3, Lamalani discusses her experience as a titleholder (International Ms. Leather 2009 and Washington State Ms. Leather 2008). She reflects on the relevance of titleholders in today’s world, the responsibilities of a titleholder, considerations when running for a title, and more.

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In part one, Alex Bettencourt draws from various sources such as books, films, magazines, etc. to offer inspiration for your service relationships.

Not everyone has experience with ‘managing’ another person (which is another way to look at service submission), so Sarah Sloane is here to share some of her secrets to a successful service arrangement. She discusses the way to keep the service person motivated and gives specific suggestions for training and preventing micro-managing.

Mollena Williams offers very concrete service tips – from the specifics of various forms of domestic servitude to sexual service and more – and recommends ways to make yourself useful based on you and your partner’s desires/needs.

Lucky Albatross talks about the emphasis on service as a long-term situation, which can be intimidating to people hesitant to take on such a major task. Lucky proposes a smaller-scale integration of service into a “vacation” scenario, where you get all the fun of a real holiday with the added spice of a service dynamic.

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As British “Lucky” Paul states, “Aftercare can make a good scene great, and great scene go wrong” and so he’s here to share some helpful thoughts on pre-planning to ensure that aftercare is not an ‘after-thought’.

Since everyone’s aftercare needs are different and both tops and bottoms need aftercare, it follows that they may not always be able to provide aftercare for each other. Lucky Albatross presents a solution in part two: using a different person who is better equipped and can be trusted to give the aftercare that is needed for either party. She talks about how best to communicate and provide for the different needs and also some strategies in case you have to do without.

Kitty Stryker discusses various aspects of aftercare in part three: the logistics, different desires, necessities, communication/negotiation, and more. She offers many practical tips to help improve your post-sexual experiences with your partner(s).

Experiencing the intense physical and psychological sensations and energy exchange of kinky scenes can leave the individuals feeling a wide range of emotions when it’s all over. That’s the time for aftercare, and as Princess Kali explains, both the bottom (or submissive) and the Top (or Dominant) should have their needs considered and cared for.

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Annie and Scotty begin to explore the many ways that the submissive woman can eroticize a power exchange relationship with a dominant man. They talk about the way this kind of role play can release inhibitions and allow the woman to freely explore her more “slutty” side. Annie enthusiastically shares that Being the object of desire for a powerful man is quite a trip.

Scotty tackles the other side of the dom/sub equation. He stresses that this is role play, not an excuse to be an asshole to women in everyday life. With the consent and negotiation of a willing submissive female, Scotty happily endorses bringing out the dominant aspects of your sexual appetite.

They talk about role-playing the fantasy of “consensual nonconsent” in part two, focusing on the most important tool for that kind of play: the safeword. It’s important to have an understanding of this concept and how to use it is a key part of a good power exchange relationship.

While it can be fun to indulge in the idea of not having any say in what happens to you, the reality is that you are responsible for yourself on a very basic level. They explain how to engage that responsibility while still keeping the play hot and sexy for both of you.

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This podcast starts with Nayland who discusses some motivations for psychological status play and begins to differentiate between the four key words: embarrass, humiliate, degrade, and objectify.

Princess Kali and Thrash discuss erotic humiliation. They consider the motivations and feelings from the perspectives of the top and, especially, the bottom. Kali and Thrash cover relevant topics such as embarrassment, shame, teasing, and more.

In the third segment, they continue their discussion about erotic humiliation play with some reflections of their own experiences. Both close by highlighting some possible triggers and areas to avoid when doing erotic humiliation play.

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