Jessica Louise Li shares how she went from being in an abusive marriage to creating a legacy with a new love of her life using what she calls the path of Sensational Sex.

And at the end of this episode I'll share with you a little food that I bet you don't know is a powerful libido booster - as well as another food that you definitely want to avoid, because it acts like a cold shower of toxicity!

Our guest, Jessica Louise LiI am very excited to be joined here today by Jessica Louise Li. Jessica is a former raw food chef who now teaches women how to use the power of sex energy to unleash self-expression in both the bedroom and in business. Now I don't know about you, but that alone would get me very excited. But she's got a lot more to share with us today, so let's get started!

Me: So Jess welcome to the Clean Food, Dirty Stories podcast! I'm super excited to have you here!

Jess: Yes, thank you for having me. I'm looking forward to those tips you have at the end.

Me: Yeah, let's see how that turns out! We'll see if you know them - including the toxic one.

I'm really glad we're able to do this because we've known each other for quite a while. 

So I already know your story, but I love it and I think it's quite a powerful one. You went from such a place of hardship to a place of lightness and joy. I think people will be very inspired to know how you went from one to the other, and what it was like for you.

I know that for a while you had a bit of a rough time because you were in a bit of an abusive relationship. Do you want to say a little bit about that? Because I think that's where your story starts, if I'm not mistaken?

Jess: Yeah definitely.

Jessica's storySo I was married for 10 years - I mean it was 14 years in the long run. But it was 10 years into the marriage where things started to accumulate more and more.

An abusive marriage from day 1It always...from day 1 it was mentally abusive, verbally abusive, emotionally abusive...There were 5 times when he put his hands on me and of course as we know, one time is more than enough.

It wasn't until almost 10 years into the marriage where he had actually tried to take my life.

My husband had actually tried to...