Last Friday, someone commented that my next writing on FetLife would be number 1,200. 

I don't focus much on numbers, really. I just write. And as another friend of mine says (about herself), I'm a wordy bitch. 

But it did make me stop and think. 

Then, over the weekend, someone that I've engaged with publicly and privately over half a decade wrote me a message that seemed so scathingly judgmental and full of negative assumptions that I wondered if I were mistaking them for someone else. 

So, I read over our previous messages, and no. Same person. Just radically different approach than ever before. 

Read the rest of the blog here: Ch-ch-ch-changes (or 12 years, and 1200 blogs) - Dating Kinky