Change The Way You Think

Why does God allow bad things to happen? How can you trust God when life doesn’t make sense? And how do you find something good in situations that seem completely hopeless?

In Episode 2 of my Personal Core Values Series, I’m talking about one of the values I work on every single day: Always Look for the Good.

It’s easy to be positive when everything is going right. But what happens when tragedy strikes, someone you love dies, or life throws something at you that you just can’t understand?

When my mom passed away, I struggled with those questions myself. My son was young, and I couldn’t understand why he had to grow up without his grandmother.

But over time, I started recognizing things I hadn’t seen before.

I believe God is good in all circumstances, even when we don’t understand what’s happening.

That doesn’t mean bad things don’t hurt. It doesn’t mean we shouldn’t grieve, get angry, or question things.

It means we have to make an intentional effort to look for the good instead of allowing negativity, bitterness, and resentment to take over our lives.

Sometimes we won’t understand why something happened. Sometimes we may never know. But I believe we can still trust God and find peace knowing He’s in control.

In this episode, I share my thoughts on:

• Why bad things happen and how faith helps us through them.
• Finding good in difficult situations.
• Trusting God’s plan when life doesn’t make sense.
• Overcoming negativity, anger, and resentment.
• Dealing with grief and personal loss.
• Finding peace, purpose, and hope through Jesus Christ.
• Living intentionally and developing a positive mindset.

I’m not saying it’s easy. I’m saying it’s something we have to work on.

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Have you ever experienced something terrible and later recognized something good that came from it?

Do you struggle to trust God when life gets hard?

Share your thoughts. I genuinely want to hear your experiences and what you think about this message.

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Remember, you have to change the way you think if you want to change the way you live.
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If you want to change your life, you have to take ownership of it.

You cannot control everything that happens to you, but you can take responsibility for your choices, your reactions, your effort, and what you do next.

In this episode of Change the Way You Think, I’m starting a new series about my personal core values and the principles I’m working to live by every day. The first one I’m sharing is ownership.

We talk about personal responsibility, accountability, stopping the blame, making fewer excuses, learning from failure, improving relationships, becoming a better parent, building confidence, finding purpose, and growing in your faith.

For me, taking ownership also means surrendering my life to God. I ask God for wisdom and guidance. I surrender the things I cannot control and take responsibility for the things I can.

That does not mean I get it right every day. I don’t. Core values are not about being perfect. They are about knowing the person you want to become and making progress toward that person every day.

If you’re tired of feeling stuck, blaming circumstances, or wondering why your life is not changing, ask yourself a hard question.

What part of my life do I need to take ownership of today?

I’ll be sharing another one of my personal core values next week, so follow the podcast and come along with me through this series.

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Life is going to keep moving whether you move with it or not.

In this episode of Change the Way You Think, I’m talking about living with purpose, making the most of the time God has given us, and quitting the excuses that keep us stuck.

You can complain about your health, your job, your relationships, your past, or the people who hurt you—but life isn’t going to stop and wait for you. At some point, you have to get up and do something about it.

I also get personal about forgiveness and what happened when I looked at a picture of my mom and realized that even though I thought I had forgiven her, I hadn’t completely let it go. Truly forgiving her took a weight off me that I didn’t realize I was still carrying.

You don’t have to know your entire purpose in life today. Get up with purpose today. Serve God. Love people. Forgive somebody. Take care of your body. Work on your relationships. Move the needle.

Life is going to pass either way. Don’t sit there and watch it happen.

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Sometimes we all need to get our asses whipped. We need to fall down, fail, get humbled, and realize maybe we don’t know as much as we think we do.

I’ve learned that lesson plenty of times in my life, and I’m learning it again right now.

I’m going through changes in my company that I honestly haven’t wanted to make. I’ve been doing things a certain way for a long time, and I’ve gotten comfortable with it. Now I’ve got somebody pushing me to change, use new technology, do things differently, and quit being so damn hard-headed about it. And I think he’s right.

I’m dealing with it in my personal life too. My son went to live with his mom, and that’s been an ass whipping for both of us. It’s made me look at myself as a dad, what I could’ve done better, what I need to change, and what I need to stand firm on.

Jiu-jitsu will teach you the same lesson real quick. You start thinking you’re getting pretty good and somebody comes along and reminds you how much you still don’t know.

That’s life.

You’re going to fail. You’re going to get knocked down. You’re going to be wrong sometimes. What matters is whether you stay down and make excuses or get back up and learn something from it.

I believe sometimes God lets us hit the gravel hard because a little bump wasn’t enough to get our attention.

So if life is kicking your ass right now, don’t automatically think it’s the end of the world. Maybe there’s something in it you need to learn. Get up, dust yourself off, make the change, and keep moving.

Remember, you have to change the way you think if you want to change the way you live.
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Are you living like a victim or a victor?

In this episode of Change The Way You Think, I talk about something I’ve struggled with and learned from throughout my own life: the difference between blaming your circumstances and taking responsibility for what you do next.

I grew up poor. My mom was on welfare. My dad was an alcoholic. For years, I wondered why I had been given the life I had. But as I got older and my faith grew stronger, I began looking at those struggles differently. Instead of only seeing what happened to me, I started seeing how those experiences helped mold me, strengthen me, and prepare me for what came next.

This episode is about breaking the victim mentality, overcoming adversity, personal responsibility, Christian motivation, trusting God, finding your purpose, learning from failure, and developing a stronger mindset.

Being a victor doesn’t mean life always works out the way you planned. It means you keep getting up. You learn when you fail. You put one foot in front of the other and climb the ladder one rung at a time.

Maybe the struggle you’re facing isn’t the end of your story. Maybe God is using it to mold you for something you can’t see yet.

Stop wasting your life blaming everyone else. Use the gifts God gave you. Put in the work. Have faith. Keep moving forward.

Be a victor, not a victim.

If this episode speaks to you, follow the podcast, share it with someone who needs it, and let me know what being a victor means in your life.

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What is faith really? Is it only about believing in God, or is faith something every single person lives by every day without realizing it? In this powerful episode of Change The Way You Think, Cameron Love breaks down what faith truly means, how fear and worry steal peace, and why every person — even atheists — operates through faith whether they admit it or not.

From struggling with fear, stress, anxiety, financial hardship, and uncertainty to finding peace through God, this episode dives deep into mindset transformation, personal growth, overcoming worry, trusting God, and understanding purpose through life’s hardest moments. Cameron shares raw truth about business struggles, cash flow stress, raising a son, overcoming childhood fear, and learning to fully trust God through every season of life.

If you’re struggling with anxiety, fear of the future, stress, uncertainty, or questioning your purpose, this episode will challenge the way you think and help you find peace through faith.

Remember, you have to change the way you think if you want to change the way you live.

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Are you constantly worrying about tomorrow? Losing sleep over finances, business, relationships, stress, anxiety, or everything happening in the world today?

In this episode of Change the Way You Think, Cameron Love delivers a raw and honest message about fear, overthinking, anxiety, faith, and learning how to focus on the present instead of spiraling about the future. Using Matthew 6:34 as the foundation, Cameron talks about trusting God, controlling your thoughts, staying grounded in today, and understanding that tomorrow is not promised.

This episode is for anyone struggling with stress, fear of the future, overthinking, sleepless nights, business pressure, parenting stress, or feeling mentally overwhelmed by life, social media, AI, negativity, and uncertainty.

If you want peace, clarity, faith, purpose, discipline, and a stronger mindset, this message will challenge you to stop focusing on what you cannot control and start being effective where your feet are right now.

Remember, you have to change the way you think if you want to change the way you live.
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For years I blamed other people for my anger, frustration, reactions, and struggles. What I finally realized through counseling, faith, mentorship, and personal growth is that healing starts when you stop blaming everyone else and start looking in the mirror.

In this episode, I open up about childhood trauma, anger issues, being diagnosed with ADHD at 47, parenting, counseling, faith, and the journey of learning how to heal and grow. I share how therapy, a men’s Bible study group, and surrounding myself with the right people completely changed the way I think and helped me understand myself on a deeper level.

This episode is for anyone struggling with anger, anxiety, trauma, stress, ADHD, loneliness, depression, parenting challenges, or feeling stuck in life. You are not alone, and there is help out there.

Remember, you have to change the way you think if you want to change the way you live.

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In this episode of Change the Way You Think, Cameron Love talks about impostor syndrome, self-doubt, worrying about what people think, and learning to trust the life God has allowed you to walk through. You don’t have to be perfect to help people. Sometimes your pain, your growth, and your life experience are the very things that qualify you to speak truth and serve others.

Remember, you have to change the way you think if you want to change the way you live.
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Laziness will ruin your life if you let it. In this episode of Change the Way You Think, Cameron Love delivers a raw, no-nonsense message about excuses, discipline, and personal responsibility.

If you’re tired of being stuck, tired of blaming others, and ready to take control—this is your wake-up call. Success, health, money, and peace all come down to your effort. Nobody is coming to fix it for you.

This episode dives into real-life examples of how laziness shows up in everyday life—from your health to your finances—and why breaking that cycle is the key to growth. Cameron shares the truth most people avoid: if you want a better life, you have to do the hard things.

Stop waiting. Stop blaming. Start changing.

Remember, you have to change the way you think if you want to change the way you live.
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