Changing Lanes Above The Neck Podcast

This podcast has a little something for all three main podcast in the Mothtoaflame Media family. Vivian and Marianne are back to shed some light on more Covid-19 related topics. With subjects too many to list, we touch on a lot of material. Listen up and see what you think. That is all.... we'll let the podcast do the talking.

Marianne is back in the states visiting and taking time out to do a very interesting podcast. She brought a newbie, Vivian. I have to admit, it was so much fun having both of them on. Vivian had a very different spin on the pandemic being a Covid-19 survivor. Subjects of term limits, the environment, history books suck, don't take down our past, the consequences of isolation - both mental and physical, the general loss of friends, family, and relationships, and isolati...

It was early Saturday morning and I got the pleasure of having Armando back on the mic. It's Dr. Love vs. Dr. Lust! After a rocky start, we were about to get our grooves on! The torrid topic of friends with benefits (FWB) was on the chopping block. I knew he would come straight out of the gate with some great knowledge and views on the subject. We did differ on a few points like the presentation and the need of a team. You can see that Armando, after admitt...

Stacey and Allen stayed for a second podcast after Divorce Devil 029. Once again, Stacey delivered a woman's point of view on the subject of dating after divorce. Allen and I did come away more informed than our past podcasts. Discussing women and options, effective communication, getting your needs met, being appreciative and accepting the person as they come to you were touched on. Stacey brought up an excellent point of how people in relationships sometimes try to c...

As usual, Connie brings to the podcast the best and unique subjects. Cockblocking is the word in this one. Going through different types of cockblocking, we expand quite a bit on its collateral damage. Almost anything can cockblock. (LOL) I found it refreshing that we did not totally agree on the subject. But, she did make think a little about my stance. We would love to hear from our listeners about what they think about cockblocking in order to do a...

I have the distinct pleasure of getting Barbara and Allen back for the first time together to do a podcast on us old people dating. I have to give credit where credit is due, it was all Allen's idea - which turned out to be a very good and enlightening one. Topics of the fear of rejection, dealbreakers, lying (embellishing) on a profile, what is love? (bacon), and 'on the table with her legs open' are all broached during the discussion. Thoroughly engaging, Barbara and Allen...

Allen is back for some more talk about relationships. This time it involves hunting and dating modes and where they differ and intersect. A couple of quick shoutouts to James (CLATN #042) and Christ (CLATN #052). We both acknowledge that women have somewhat turned the time on men. Some of them have become the hunters and not the hunted. Allen does do to me what no other guest has - makes me come clean about some of my relationships! Damnnnn.... With letting...

Welcome Chris (John Doe) to the CLATN Podcast. I've been trying to get him on the show ever since we first met earlier this summer. I knew he would not disappoint my listeners at all. And, Chris comes through with flying colors. It's probably the most I've ever laughed recording a podcast. His honesty slaps you in the face again and again. With honesty being one of the best policies when making a dating profile, we touched on quite a few online dating subje...

Connie shows up with a very important topic (we thought) concerning dating and relationships. Womanscaping and Manscaping. We both learned a lot during this podcast. Besides me finding out about Connie's preferences - we touched on subjects of women wearing less makeup, no side dishes, botox, vagina rejuvenation because of ugly vaginas, and embrace your gray hair. Definitely gonna be a part two to this one. I thought of a lot more to add to talk about. ...

Allen stayed after CLATN 050 and helped me tackle the subject of Divorce - a second chance at happiness. He was extremely forthcoming with his thoughts and experiences on the topic. We must love and be happy with ourselves before we can be happy with others. Hoping others can benefit from this podcast, we only express what works for us and hopefully can stir something in others. Take a listen, what do you have to lose?