Our brains have been conditioned by childhood experiences, fairy tales, ads, and cultural norms to view love in unhealthy ways. Lillian is an anthropologist who has studied how this happens and what we can do to change our “love GPS.”

We discussed why self-love is so important and what my husband Steve and I learned to do differently than our parents did (both sets divorced after long, unhappy marriages) that has kept us happily married for nearly 35 years now.

P.S. I’ve created a self-love workbook which you can get for free (enter $0 in the “name a price” field) at bit.ly/mylovebook.

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