Changing Your Mentality.

Changing Your Mentality.

By Victoria Umoren || Moments With Udmor.EducationSelf-Improvement
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Changing Your Mentality. episodes

  • Addiction is one burden that can definitely hinder your growth in life. How do you get free from it?
    Addiction varies from person to person. Getting yourself out of what has tied you down is a conscious effort that only you need to accept. The first step to releasing yourself from addiction is awareness of the fact that you are indeed addicted to it. If I point out your addiction to you, you won't see it except you come to the acceptance that this is your problem. Like the saying goes, once you identify your problem, you are one step in finding the solution. That also applies to addiction. The knowledge of it will set you on the path to the solution. To get more insight on today's topic, do listen to the podcast to the end. If you want me to assist you in your journey to freedom, you can write to me at [email protected] and I will gladly show you the path to complete freedom. I am you, and you are me. I love you.
    26 min
  • Leaving Christianity in search of who God truly is made me to come to know the universe is in me.
    The Abrahamic religion has only one thing to offer. Forget who you are. Religion is a tool to trap us into the reincarnation process. Religion will teach you how to hate yourself and hate another. Religion is filled with so much division and zero togetherness. Ask yourself one question. If there is truly a God, why will he create so much confusion as to which religion is best? Now that will set you on a journey to the realisation that you are all you need. You don't need to worship anything outside of you. There is no heaven and there is no hell. Wake up to the your true identity. Get to know that the universe isn't just inside of you but you are the universe experiencing yourself in the form you are now. Get to access your DNA cause in it lies the truth that you are in search for. The book I bought is called the Eth Cepher. Read it and open your mind. Send me an email on [email protected] I would love to read from you. I am you and you are me. I love you ๐Ÿ’š.
    29 min
  • Men Stop Encouraging RAPE! The same safe space we created for the sisters, lets do same for the men.
    Don't shut a man up when he is ready to speak out. We should make it a new culture to encourage our brothers to speak whenever they are hurting. As a mother or father, you don't need to focus on your daughter thinking the society is rotten and leaving your son to grow up himself. You don't know what is happening to him outside. He might be molested and due to the fact you don't want him talking, he will go into his closet and hide. Such a psychological trauma will breed a monster in the society and all we will do is say "all men are the same" that is a false narrative.
    The men we neglect today will become the monster tomorrow. We have rapist's, pedophile, women beaters roaming the street should we check, we will find out that there is an underlying somewhere. It is either as a child or a teen he was molested and told to keep it to himself.
    Enough of doing such. It is time we change the narrative and allow our brothers to come speak up. Our brothers will turn to alcohol and drugs because of how hurt they have been and no one to listen to them.
    Let us tell our men that not anymore. If you want to speak about being raped when you were a child or experiencing domestic violence from your wife, the time is now. Don't allow anyone stop you from sharing your story.
    And if you want to talk to someone, I am here. Send me a mail on [email protected] I will really love to read from you.
    I am you and you are me.
    I love you ๐Ÿ’š
    Be safe.
    27 min
  • Diagnosis: Shadow work; Repair: Healing. Without these two, you won't enjoy being authentic.
    The individual who designed car, did so by replicating the human body. Whenever your car isn't working properly, you take it to the service centre for it to be diagnosed and then repaired. The same thing should always happen to us. But one thing I have noticed about us as humans, we barely pay attention to the fact that we need repair. Like the popular saying, once you have identified the problem, you are one step away in looking for the solution. Shadow work is compulsory. It isn't something that is meant to be done by a few individuals but each and one of us. Go and sit with yourself and diagnose yourself of areas in your life that needs healing. You must have had a nasty childhood. You might have been bullied in school. Something must have made you that way and all you need is to heal yourself. Once you are healed, if you get triggered you won't react. Once you change the break pad, the break no longer makes a funny noise. So you owe it to yourself to embark on this journey to self. Do this and you will always be proud of you. I love you. Our email still remains [email protected] I would love to read from you. Stay safe until next podcast.
    31 min
  • The world is a huge stage, dividing us into three groups. Main characters, extras and spectators.
    Every actors must go through the stage of auditioning before you partake in a movie. What if the billion of sperms that was released before you got to hit your mum's eggs was the auditioning stage?
    What of your ancestors saw it that you will deliver the role flawlessly cause that is what they saw you do during the auditioning and here you are disappointing them cause you have choosen to be a spectator in anothers script called life?
    You can't continue to camouflage another's life and call it living. You can't keep being the prototype version of Tom Cruise and call it living. What you doing is to barely exist. Living in your authentic self is the best gift you can give yourself.
    The universe wants to experience life from the lenses of everyone hence why we are all here. If she wanted to see it from only two or ten individuals, we won't be here today.
    The animals are playing their own part in this script called life. You owe yourself to do yours as well. I can only call you back to yourself but you have to be willing and ready to want to act according to your script.
    Don't let your ancestors down. They are rooting for you cause they choose you to come here. Be real. Be authentic cause that is how you can truly showcase yourself.
    If you need psychological services or coaching in your spiritual life, you can do so by clicking on this link. I will love to read from you.
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    29 min
  • The divine healed masuline needs the divine healed feminine. Don't be deceived by society.
    Society will always make us to go towards the aspect that we don't need eachother of which that isn't true. Navigating life with a companion has proven to be much easier than doing it alone. The quote didn't say two heads are better than one. What it said was two good heads are better than one. No one will save you from you. If you don't look inside yourself to know who you are, whatsoever someone throws at you, you will claim that to be love cause you haven't loved yourself therefore you don't know what love truly is. The moment has come for us to do the work cause we need it. Our soul needs to transcend so that it won't wear out. Work on yourself cause that will lead you to knowing yourself.
    28 min
  • No amount of makeup can cover your trauma..
    Science is yet to come out with a permanent makeup where I don't need to wash my face. Whatsoever ugliness I carry, will show after I am done with the makeup. It is either I accept the fact that I am ugly and do something about it or I keep allowing the makeup coming take from me. Same thing applies with us hiding behind our trauma just cause we don't want to heal. Healing might seem painful but it is the best route to freeing yourself from that bondage. Be conscious about accepting the fact that you have been hurt and go on that healing journey. No one will save you unless you save yourself. I can only stretch forth my hands to pull you out. If you don't reach for me, you won't be free. There might be other ways in achieving things, but when it comes to trauma, healing is the only way! To reach out to me for counselling, send a mail to [email protected] I will love to read from you and attend you your needs. I am you and you are me. I love you.
    31 min
  • Don't confine yourself to the society, religion, tradition or your culture just to fit in.
    Dogs aren't monogamous in nature like red foxes are. No one in the animal kingdom will look at a dog, a cat or a chicken and compel them to stay with one partner cause it is the norm. Rules are made for men and not animals. Animals will know themselves from their instinct and follow that route without deviating. They walk in their authenticity cause that is what living truly feels like. Don't throw yourself out of the window cause society isn't so much in love with you. You loving yourself and choosing you is all that matters trust me. To get more insight on this message, listen to today's podcast. Do well to share this podcast to everyone that you come across. If the message wasn't for you, it could be for them. In case you want to drop a message, do so on here [email protected]
    24 min
  • Celebrate yourself whenever you are being rejected.
    Whenever you are rejected, it is a clear case of your energy is not needed there. You aren't meant to force yourself to stay there cause there will be consequences. You are allowed to make plans but fate holds the key to most of our plans. See rejections are a redirection of your life path and purpose. Don't throw yourself out of the window cause it didn't happen as you wanted it to. Your spirit guides know better than you do. Be in a state of rejoicing whenever you are in the path of redirections. To get more insight on this topic, listen to today's podcast.
    23 min
  • The reason why humans fear DEATH.
    Humans have decided to create the illusion called time thereby using that has a basis not to live in the fullness of who they are. We are all familiar with the phrase "Time waits for no one". "Time is nobody's friend" cause seeing it doesn't exist, it can't wait therefore it's no one friend. You have been programmed for so long to thinking that a tomorrow exists that's why you push all your activities to that tomorrow and when death comes, you tell it that you aren't ready cause you have alot you didn't do. Don't waste opportunities layed in front of you cause you have limited yourself to "a tomorrow" it doesn't exist. It will only create anxiety for you. To get more on this topic, click on the link and listen to today's segment. I am you and you are me.
    22 min

About Changing Your Mentality.

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Changing Your Mentality is a reflective podcast exploring self-awareness, cognitive presence, and the psychological meanings we assign to our experiences. It is not about superficial fixes, but about noticing how interpretation shapes our inner world, stress responses, and daily performance.