In this episode, I dive into Chapter 8 of my bestselling book  Inner Brilliance: Outer Shine, 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, which focuses on how to develop an inner captain and take charge of your thoughts.

Key Topics Covered:

• I explore how to develop an “inner captain” to take charge of your thoughts and beliefs.
• I share personal stories, including my experience withimposter syndrome and a cancer diagnosis, to show how mindset tools work in real life.
• I discuss the impact of negative self-talk and how reframing thoughts can change your emotional state and outcomes.
• I reveal practical strategies like journaling, havening, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), and positive affirmations, to manage stress and negativity.
• I talk about the importance of gratitude and how focusing on what’s good in your life helps you to stay positive and become happier.
• I explain how I interrupt negative thought patterns—sometimes with humour, distraction, or even singing!
• I highlight the dangers of comparison, especially on social media, and how you can bring your focus back to your own journey.
• I encourage listeners to process emotions rather thansuppress them, using various tools.
• I remind you that negative feelings are temporary, and that we have the power to choose our response.

Here’s to your shining!

Estelle Read x

Bestselling Author, Coach &Speaker

Timestamps:

• 0:00 – Introduction to the podcast and host
• 0:40 – About Estelle and her book
• 1:33 – Starting Chapter 8: Develop Your Inner Captain
• 2:37 – The impact of negative thoughts and language
• 6:17 – Strategies to counter imposter syndrome andnegativity
• 8:38 – Personal story: Facing a cancer diagnosis
• 14:07 – Blackpool Illuminations: Spotting and interruptingnegative thought patterns
• 17:04 – Journaling and processing thoughts
• 21:06 – Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and havening
• 24:06 – Dealing with uncertainty and "what if"thinking
• 27:00 – Useful vs. useless thoughts; learning to reframe
• 31:16 – Down in the doldrums: Coping with depression andloss
• 36:46 – The power of gratitude and "re-dipping"into positive memories
• 41:17 – Affirmations and manifesting positive change
• 46:09 – Summary of key points and closing thoughts
• 48:48 – What's next: Preview of Chapter 9

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