In this episode, I unpack the real reasons we self-sabotageand introduce the science-backed CLEAR framework - designed to counteract it and help you break through barriers to your biggest goals in 2026. Whether you’re setting personal milestones or leading a team, you’ll find actionableinsights to help you and your team shine brighter.

This recording was longer than usual 😂, because there’s lots of great content to share, so it’s delivered in two shorter episodes.

Part 1️⃣ (last week): The Top 5 Goal Self-Sabotage Mistakes that even the most driven people make - and how to avoid them.

Part 2️⃣ (this week): The CLEAR Framework for setting and achieving goals to elevate your work and life.

What you’ll learn in Part 2️⃣:

💡The 5-step CLEAR framework that top performers use to overcome self-sabotage and accelerate success.

💡Practical, science-based strategies to boost energy, align actions, and stay motivated all year.

💡How to set meaningful goals, build durable habits, and rise to the next level - at work and in life.

Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth in 2026!

Estelle Read 

Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:

(00:00) Welcome to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast

(01:04) Support the show: Like, subscribe, and share

(01:30) Recap of part 1 of this episode and what’s ahead

(02:17) Why we self-sabotage and how to break the cycle

(03:44) Who this episode is for: leaders, professionals, and goal-setters

(04:04) The science behind self-sabotage and transformation

(05:12) Introducing the CLEAR framework

(10:47) Step 1: Get clear on your vision and goals

(11:06) Step 2: Let go of identity threats and limiting beliefs

(12:15) Step 3: Energise: plugging energy leaks and boosting motivation

(13:46) Step 4: Take aligned action and build success habits

(15:57) Step 5: Rise: review, refine, and recognise your progress

(45:58) Final thoughts, how to connect, and closing

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.

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Listen on your favourite podcast platform here:https://estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

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⭐Work with Estelle Read:

Find out more about our coaching programmes:

🌟The Resilient LeaderProgramme: SHINE: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/

🌟The Optimised LeaderProgramme: NEXT LEVEL: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/

⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:

Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Disclaimer:This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

How’re those New Year’s resolutions going? Most peoplegive up their New Year's resolutions by the second Friday inJanuary, a day dubbed "Quitter's Day," with studies showing over 80% abandoning goals by mid-January due to unrealistic expectations and waning motivation.

If you want to understand why we self-sabotage and masterthe steps to stop it, these two episodes are for you. I’m sharing the science and stories behind why we self-sabotage - and, more importantly, how you can break free and achieve your boldest goals in 2026. Whether you’re aiming for personal growth, business breakthroughs, or simply want to feel more fulfilled, this episode is packed with actionable insights and real-life examples to inspire your next steps.

This recording was longer than usual 😂, because there's lots of great content to share, so it’s delivered in two shorter episodes.

Part 1️⃣: The Top 5 Goal Self-Sabotage Mistakesthat keep even the most driven people stuck and how to avoid them, (today’s episode).

Part 2️⃣: My CLEAR Framework, forsetting and achieving goals to take your work-life to the next level, (next week’s episode).

What You Will Learn in Part 1️⃣:

💡The science behind self-sabotage mistakes that could be keeping your goals out of reach. Overcome procrastination, perfectionism, and the hidden ceilings that limityour success and performance.

💡 The four goal categories to consider when creating your plan for 2026.

💡Get inspired by real-life stories and actionable tips that will empower you to take control, set meaningful goals, and accelerate your progress.

Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth in 2026!

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:

(00:00) Welcome to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast

(01:04) Introduction: Meet Estelle Read and the mission of the show

(01:30) Why we self-sabotage: Setting the stage for 2026 goals

(06:24) The science behind self-sabotage and performance ceilings

(07:49) Real-life examples: Overcoming setbacks and achieving breakthroughs

(13:20) The four goal categories

(18:59) Finding the real reason (and motivation) for your goals in 2026

(23:51) Estelle’s personal journey: Lessons from the Lake District

(31:51) The 5 self-sabotage mistakes revealed

(47:06) How we delay our dreams

(48:33) Invitation to connect and next steps

(49:33) What’s coming in Part 2: The CLEAR Framework for transformation

(50:00) Outro and how to stay connected

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.

⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:

Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

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⭐Work with Estelle Read:

🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/

🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/

⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:

Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Disclaimer:

This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

In this episode, I reflect on the highlights of Season 4,sharing the most inspiring moments and lessons from my brave guests. We explore the mindsets, habits, and stories that can help you lead an even better work-life. After recording each episode, there was always a takeaway that made me reflect or take action - like doing my first wild water swim with my guest Philippa Hardy , a triathlon coach and HR veteran.

What You Will Learn:

💡 Discover the surprising common threads among high achievers - from overcoming fear to embracing vulnerability and setting bold goals.

💡 Hear raw, honest stories that will inspire you to reframe setbacks, build resilience, and pursue your ambitions with renewed energy.

💡 Get practical takeaways you can use to optimise your performance, productivity, success and wellbeing.

Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth!

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:

(00:00) Welcome to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast

(01:04) Season 4 Highlights: The Experiment That Became aMovement

(02:05) The Power of Shared Experience: You’re Not Alone

(03:17) What Guests Have in Common

(06:08) Facing Fears and Setting Ambitious Goals

(09:15) Mindset Shifts: Reframing Negative Thoughts

(11:40) Discipline, Obsession, and Purpose

(13:17) Honest Conversations: Moments That Change Everything

(15:21) Resilience and Real Life Beyond Instagram Perfection

(18:18) Breaking Out of Comfort Zones: Personal Stories

(22:06) Tools and Ideas to Help You Lead Your Best Life

(24:58) Thank You to the Guests and Listeners

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.

⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:

Listen on your favourite podcast platform here:https://estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/   

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⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:

https://estelleread.com/resources/

⭐Work with Estelle Read:

Find out more about our coaching programmes:

🌟The Resilient LeaderProgramme: SHINE: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/

🌟The Optimised LeaderProgramme: NEXT LEVEL: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/

⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:

Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Disclaimer:This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

I dive into the fascinating parallels between familydynamics at the Christmas table and the behaviours we see in meetings and the boardroom. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences and powerful psychological models, I’ll help you recognise old patterns, understand your triggers, and give you practical tools to handle difficult people both at homeand at work.

What You Will Learn:

💡 Discover the hidden connections between your childhood roles and your professional life - insights that will change how you see yourself and others.

💡 Learn practical, science-backed strategies to handle challenging family or workplace dynamics, so you can stay calm, confident, and in control.

💡 Unlock actionable coaching models that empower you to break free from old patterns and create more positive, productive relationships

Wishing you a very merry Christmas.

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach &Speaker

Timestamps:

00:00) Welcome to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast

(01:00) Meet your host and coach, Estelle Read

(01:30) Why family and boardroom dynamics are so similar

(03:00) Classic roles at the Christmas table - and what they mean

(05:00) How childhood experiences shape adult behaviour

(08:00) Real-life coachingstories: triggers and transformation

(12:00) Why is this person behaving this way? Discover what lies beneath the surface.

(15:00) How we get caught up in ‘drama’ and how to get out of it

(18:00) Why people try to control you and other throws a ‘tantrum’

(21:00) Giving feedback that works - at home and at work

(24:00) Practical tips for a stress-free Christmas (and career)

(27:00) Final thoughts and how to connect with Estelle

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe whereveryou listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.

⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:

Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/   

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/

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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EstelleAtBeee/

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⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:

https://estelleread.com/resources/

⭐ Work with Estelle Read:

Find out more about our coaching programmes:

🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/

🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/

⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:

Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Book Recommendation:

Birth Order: What Your Position In The Family Really Tells You About Your Character: https://amzn.eu/d/5Fp271J  

The first time I saw Andrew Whitehead, he was accompanying Sarah Walker-Smith, on the piano. It was lockdown and Sarah was singing from her office cabin she affectionately called the ‘shed’. As Senior Partner and CEO of Shakespeare Martineau, they were lifting the spirits oftheir colleagues.

What struck me was the bravery, beauty and authenticity of their performance. Doing something totally different, putting themselves out there, and demonstrating poise, calm and leadership during stressful times. So, it was great to chat with Andrew where we got under the surface of leveragingwhat makes you different to advance your leadership career.

What You Will Learn:

💡 Discover the Power of Serendipity - How chance encounters shaped Andrew’s career and how you can spotand seize similar opportunities.

💡 Overcome Fear and Embrace Challenge - Strategies for stepping outside your comfort zone, fromleadership to public speaking.

💡 The Value of Being Different - Why standing out and authenticity can be your greatest asset in anyfield.

💡 Resilience Through Adversity - Lessons from personal and professional challenges, including ahealth scare, on focusing what matters.

💡 Actionable Growth Advice - Practical tips for building strong teams, finding renewed purpose, andthriving on your journey.

Here’s to your shining!

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach &Speaker

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction to the Optimising Your BrilliancePodcast
(01:04) Meet Andrew Whitehead: Career Highlights & Background
(03:11) The Role of Serendipity in Career Development
(06:24) Overcoming Fear and Embracing Challenges
(09:40) The Value of Being Different in Law and Life
(13:00) Building Teams and Avoiding Self-Sabotage
(16:40) Resilience Through Health Challenges
(20:00) Advice for Facing Adversity and Finding Purpose
(23:45) Pearls of Wisdom & Final Thoughts
(24:35) Outro and How to Connect

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.

⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:

Listen on your favourite podcast platform here:https://estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

⭐Follow Andrew Whitehead:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewwhiteheadmartineau/

https://www.shma.co.uk/  

⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/   

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/

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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EstelleAtBeee/

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⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:

https://estelleread.com/resources/

⭐ Work with Estelle Read:

Find out more about our coaching programmes:

🌟The Resilient LeaderProgramme: SHINE: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/

🌟The Optimised LeaderProgramme: NEXT LEVEL: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/

⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotesto Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:

Receive my freeworkbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when yousign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Disclaimer:

This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

You know those people who seem to do it all? My next guest does just that: five children, a partner, four dogs, and three books, plus she’s built a beautiful home on Lake Windermere. She now runs The Heaning Estate, a beautiful collection of dwellings she renovated, which you can stay in.

How does she make it all possible?

Deborah shares the secrets to her success: bravery, dream-driven ambition, and the discipline to take consistent steps – even when fear or doubt shows up.

Deborah’s daily routine and wellbeing priority prove you can do it all. In this episode, she pulls back the curtain on life as an author and businesswoman.

What You Will Learn:

💡 Deborah’s daily habits that boost productivity while safeguarding wellbeing.

💡 Real-life lessons from building a business, writing books, and balancing family life.

💡 Learn how embracing fear and discipline, can unlock newlevels of creativity and business success.

Here’s to your shining!

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:

(00:00) Meet Deborah Lyon: Introduction and background
(01:27) The Heaning Estate and the art of doing it all
(06:46) How Estelle and Deborah met: A story of connection
(14:56) Daily routines, discipline, and the 20/20/20 rule
(24:21) Overcoming fear, imposter syndrome, and building belief
(35:17) Writing, business, and the power of passion and purpose
(47:19) Advice for aspiring writers and entrepreneurs
(62:00) Reflections, regrets, and advice to your 18-year-old self
(65:00) Closing thoughts and where to connect with Deborah

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.

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Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

⭐Follow Deborah Lyon or Buy Her Book:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahannedone/Timewaif & The Roman Road: https://amzn.eu/d/cUADYiEhttps://timewaif.com/https://www.theheaning.com/

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⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:

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⭐ Work with Estelle Read:

Find outmore about our coaching programmes:

🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE:https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/

🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXTLEVEL: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/

⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:

Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Disclaimer:

This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

Content warning: This episode discusses suicide &mental health challenges.

Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How doI handle this difficult conversation & what do I say because I fear rejection?

Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay.I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply.

Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out asa gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out. He shares his pivotal identity moments & how he learned to belong & become the best version of himself. He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy & successful work-life.

What You Will Learn:

💡 Discover how childhood experiences & family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to breakfree from limiting beliefs.

💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, & building asupportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.

💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, & redefining what success means to you.

If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t sufferalone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.

Here’s to your health & wellbeing ❤️.

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach &Speaker

Timestamps:

(00:00) Welcome & Introduction by Estelle Read

(01:04) Neil Jinks Returns: Why This Conversation Matters

(01:23) Highlights: Identity, Belonging, & Overcoming Adversity

(03:13) Diving Deeper: Childhood, Family, & Self-Discovery

(06:40) The Emotional Journey: Coming Out & Finding Acceptance

(13:23) Turning Points: Seeking Help & Embracing Change

(19:44) Building the Alliance Network: Creating Community

(24:03) Limiting Beliefs, Success, & Taking Risks

(33:04) Practical Tools: Anchors, Affirmations, and Growth Mindset

(44:16) Giving Back: Philanthropy, Minimalism, & the Power of Support

(52:48) Final Thoughts & How to Connect

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe whereveryou listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.

⭐Watch on YouTube:

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/neiljinks/

Neil is the Brand Ambassador for Broadriver Group: www.broadrivergroup.co.uk
The group includes:
www.controlaccount.com

www.datatraceuk.com

www.sinclairtaylor.co.uk

www.identeco.co.uk

www.harpsoftware.co.uk
Neil is also Chair or President of:
www.cicm.com
www.ccua.org.uk
www.irrv.net/associations

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⭐Strengths Profiles

https://store.gallup.com/h/en-gb 

https://www.16personalities.com/

https://www.viacharacter.org/

⭐ Work with Estelle Read:

📈The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: ⁠https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/⤴️The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/

⭐Buy Estelle’s Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Subscribe to Estelle's Blog:

Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Disclaimer:

This podcast is for informational purposes only & shouldnot be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

As a leader or business owner, do you ever find yourself running out of ideas for driving business growth? And are your bored of, or in need of, some non-AI, business development inspiration?

Daniel Jarvis, a Product Group Manager at Plastribution, anorganisation renowned for their innovation, have ripped up the rule book on how to develop deeper client relationships, which ordinarily take months to nurture.

What Daniel and his fellow leaders created, sounded like so much fun! Not only that, but they also saved time and money.

Dan’s insights underscore the importance of human connection but also how agile his business is when it comes to decision making. He shares practical tips on how to do this.

We did discuss AI too – it’s hard to avoid it, but it’s alwaysinteresting to hear how other businesses are adapting and using it.

Finally, Daniel was candid about how he overcame a fear,which created a mental shift and transformed his life in an instant.

What You Will Learn:

💡 Practical innovative strategies which drive business performance

💡 The importance of not letting a fear fester and how to overcome it, so that you lead a better life

💡An alternative approach to self-care for leaders, which returns you to a state of mind akin to child-like wonder

Here’s to your shining!

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:

(00:00) Welcome & Podcast Introduction
(01:04) Meet Dan Jarvis: Early Life and Influences
(02:16) Music, Bands, and Team Dynamics
(10:00) Conflict, Feedback, and Decision-Making
(20:00) Retirement, Purpose, and Planning Ahead
(30:00) Overcoming Fear of Flying
(38:00) Driving Business Growth, Innovation & Having Fun
(45:00) AI in Business and Everyday Life
(52:00) Balancing Work, Self-Care, and Childlike Wonder
(58:00) Advice to Your Younger Self
(79:39) Outro and Resources

⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:

Listen on your favourite podcast platform here:https://estelleread.com/podcast/ orwatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

⭐Follow Estelle Read:
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EstelleAtBeee/

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⭐Access Free Resources & Work With Estelle Read:

For free resources, book a discovery call or join The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL, visit https://estelleread.com/

⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:

Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when yousign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r

⭐Buy Estelle Read's Bestselling Book:

Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH

⭐Follow Daniel Jarvis:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-jarvis-5493022b/

https://www.instagram.com/danielljarvis/

His band is called: Dropping Like Flies

⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:

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In this episode, I sit down with my own coach, Simon Edwards- a PGA performance coach, tournament director, and all-around expert in helping people unlock their true potential.

We dive into the mindset, stories, and strategies that have shaped Simon’s journey from playing in the OpenChampionship to coaching winners and transforming lives, including my own.

Whether you’re a golfer, a leader, or just someone looking to be your best, you’ll find inspiration and practical wisdom in this conversation.

Summary:

💡 Get an insider’s look at what it’s like to compete in the Open Championship and share the practice range with golf legends.

💡Learn how the “Kaizen” philosophy of continuous improvement can elevate your performance in any field.

💡Discover practical coaching strategies and mindset shifts that help both elite athletes and everyday people achieve their goals.

Here’s to your shining!

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to the Optimising Your BrilliancePodcast

00:40 – Meet your host, Estelle Read

01:04 – Introducing Simon Edwards: PGA coach &tournament director

01:55 – Simon’s journey: From player to coach, and the OpenChampionship

02:25 – The power of coaching, process, and continuousimprovement

02:52 – Estelle’s personal golf story and lessons with Simon

05:25 – Imposter syndrome and the “natural genius” mindset

09:00 – The importance of process, Kaizen, and learning fromfailure

13:30 – Family, switching off, and the value of obsession

21:10 – Simon’s origin story: Family, values, and the loveof golf

28:15 – Parenting, pressure, and building good humansthrough sport

36:00 – Visualisation, performance, and the “zone” in golfand life

45:00 – What makes someone brilliant? Simon’s checklist forcoaching and playing

55:00 – Book recommendations and closing thoughts

55:14 – Outro: Subscribe, share, and connect with Estelle

Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

Connect with Estelle Read:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/   

Access Free Resources:

For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXTLEVEL, visit https://estelleread.com/

Connect with Simon Edwards:

https://www.facebook.com/simon.edwards.581525

https://www.instagram.com/sedwardsgolf/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/simon-edwards-49a9441b/

Please Help Us Grow So We Can Continue:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave areview or share it with someone who might benefit. Thanks for listening to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast!

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

Why is it that we must be taken to the very edge of asituation to wake up and realise we need to make a change, before it’s too late?

In this episode, I open up about two life-changing wake-upcalls - one that nearly ended my marriage and another that resulted in a trip in an ambulance.

I share the lessons these moments taught me about perspective, resilience, and the importance of consciously choosing how to move forward – because let’s face, most of the time we walk around on autopilot.

Also, what if we could have the clarity of thought to makechanges before it’s too late? That was my intention with this podcast ep. I’ll guide you through a powerful coaching exercise to help you reflect on your own work-life and set a new course for tomorrow or the next 5 years. Today, I amyour coach ❤️.

Summary:

💡 How my partner’s health scare stopped us from separating.

💡The shock of a paramedic telling you they suspect you are having or have had a heart attack. Spoiler alert: the cause was laughter. I share what happened next and the learnings.

💡A step-by-step coaching exercise to help you assess your work-life and identify changes that you will feel motivated to make, without having to go to worst case scenario.

Here’s to your shining!

Estelle Read  

Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:

Key Timestamps

0:00 – Welcome & Introduction

1:04 – The holiday incident: a wake-up call

2:33 – Two life-changing moments: marriage crisis &health scare

4:29 – Discovering a lump: facing the fear of cancer

6:44 – The power of perspective and rebuilding trust

9:15 – The second wake-up call: laughter, chest pain, and atrip to the hospital

12:27 – The ambulance ride and confronting denial

19:57 – Using NLP and self-hypnosis to manage anxiety

25:32 – The “Three Chairs” coaching exercise: assessing yourlife

47:00 – Reflecting on the past, present, and future

1:10:00 – Lessons on resilience, letting go, and embracingchange

1:12:00 – How to work with Estelle: coaching programs andnext steps

1:13:45 – Final thoughts, resources, and how to connect

Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

Connect with Estelle Read:
https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee

Access Free Resources:

For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXTLEVEL, visit https://estelleread.com/

Please Help Us Grow So We Can Continue:

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave areview or share it with someone who might benefit. Thanks for listening to theOptimising Your Brilliance Podcast!

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consulta qualified professional for specific advice.