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Chapter Five - What Do You Want Us to Do, Miss Tate?


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Chapter 5: When I Was Right All Along

Sunday, 16 June, 2019. I'm in A&E. My iron is 81. My inflammation is 97. My body is eating itself.

The doctor asks, "What do you want us to do, Miss Tate?"

All I can say is: "I just want someone to make me better."

This is the chapter where I get admitted to hospital. Where they tell me I have characteristics of Crohn's. Where I react to yet more medications. And where I finally take control and save myself.

In this episode:

🏥 A&E to admission: finding a bed at midnight

💉 IV steroids and another sigmoidoscopy

🩺 "You have characteristics of Crohn's"

❌ The consultant who won't hear "allergic reaction"

🤷‍♀️ "How do you go from mild to Crohn's in one month?"

🚫 No dietitian referrals "because NHS doesn't do that anymore"

🍽️ Hospital food when you have severe restrictions (spoiler: just salad)

💊 Prednisolone: my face and legs swell up massively

👵 "I looked like my Great Nan"

📞 "Persevere for 10 more days" - I couldn't

🥗 Discovering the Specific Carbohydrate Diet (SCD)

💪 Within days: running again, symptoms disappearing

🎯 The vindication

✅ I was right all along


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ABOUT THIS SERIES:

From toilet panic to 3AM peace - this is my unfiltered journey through five years of IBD, fertility struggles, premature ovarian failure, and becoming a mother through donor eggs. No filters. No AI polish. Just the messy, real, hopeful truth.

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DISCLAIMER: This content shares my personal health and fertility journey and is not medical advice. The supplements and protocols mentioned worked for me but may not be suitable for everyone. Always consult qualified healthcare professionals about your own health concerns.


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3am ThoughtsBy Annique Tate