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There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.


0:00 - Intro
0:16 - Context
0:41 - His voice is constricted
1:47 - What you should do instead
2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted
4:35 - Want more tips like this?


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Look under any YouTube video of Simu Liu and you'll see commenters praising his charisma. He’s new to being an A-list celebrity, but he’s making an incredible first impression.

So in this video, we’ll go through 6 mistakes most people make during their first impressions, and 6 habits you can learn from Simu that will let you make an amazing first impression instead. These habits are super easy to do, most people just don’t think to do them.



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0:37 - Make A Strong Entrance
Mistake: thinking a first impression starts when you start speaking
2:03 - Get comfortable taking up the space around you
Mistake: keeping your arms tight to your body while you speak
3:30 - Look for Observational Compliments early in the interaction
Mistake: trying to be “cool” by coming in aloof or standoffish
4:34 - Elevate the people around you
Mistake: focusing solely on trying to make yourself look good
5:29 - Be an Encouraging Listener
Mistake: thinking that to make a good impression, you have to do all the talking
7:20 - Have great answers for the questions you know you’re likely to be asked
Mistake: having boring answers to the standard questions you know are coming

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A sad irony of the Joker is that it’s only after his descent into madness that Arthur appears happy and confident

But of course turning on the world isn’t the only way to feel mentally strong, and that’s why in this video I want to use Arthur’s story to talk about 5 habits that kill your mental fortitude & confidence and what you can do instead to build mental toughness.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:40 - #1: Arthur often engages in fantasy.
1:57 - #2: Arthur lacks self efficacy.
4:23 - #3: Arthur has no outlet where he can honestly express his emotions.
5:46 - #4: Arthur inadvertently disowns aspects of himself.
7:04 - #5: Everything we have discussed results in Arthur’s total hatred of the world.

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Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them.

0:00 - Intro
2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort
3:27 - Over explaining and rambling
4:42 - Seeking approval
6:46 - Roping in other people
9:08 - Resentment
12:51 - Compliment sandwiching

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When it comes to dating, most people don’t have as many options as they’d like.

Or the options you do have feel like settling, and you have this nagging feeling that you want to do better.

Then you see some people who consistently date out of their league. How do they do it?
In this video, we’ll breakdown the start to several unlikely celebrity couples, and use them to show you seven tips to help you date out of your league.

Later in the video, we’ll explain why “leagues” are problematic. But for now, assume “out of your league,” refers to anyone you believe is above you in attractiveness, wealth, fame, or social status.
We’ll be focusing on men interacting with women since that’s my own personal experience, but similar principles will apply no matter who you like.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
1:36 - #1: Have access to the person
2:58 - #2: You have to stand out
3:47 - #3: Playfully tease
6:50 - #4: Prioritize being honest
8:01 - #5: Have other good things in your life
11:50 - #6: Minimize your nervousness
13:19 - #7: Dating "out of your league" is a bad goal


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6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic (Animated)

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These are the six mindsets that will make you charismatic and magnetic! We talked about it on the channel about the the eye contact, the body language, and the tonality that conveys charisma but behind all of those things, there are mindsets. And the mindsets are so critical because when you have them in line, all of a sudden, you don't really have to think about the eye contact as much and it just happens and your body flows naturally and your tonality is on point. So in this video, what I want to do is cover these six most important mindsets that will make you magnetic and this is a topic that I've covered before but today, I am very happy because we have the help of After Skool to animate this and make it much more interesting updating it for 2018.

And those mindsets are, starting with number one — no matter what, I will be okay. In my opinion, this is the most fundamental mindset to charisma because so many people live their life wrapped in this sort of mental loop of what-if questions. "What if I speak up and my boss doesn't like my idea? What if I asked this girl on a date and she says no? What if I'd leaned in for a kiss and even worse, she ducks away?" "What if I were to ask this person to go just as a friend out to coffee and they said, 'I was busy that day'?" All of these sorts of things stop people from acting, from speaking up, and from expressing who they really are.

0:35 No matter what happens, you will be okay
2:17 Care more about your character than your reputation
3:19 Have impeccable honesty and impeccable integrity
5:28 You don't need to convince anyone of any particular belief
7:39 Start communicating your purpose more proactively
9:00 The last mindset is that you need to start going first

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Narcissists don’t behave like most people. They take advantage of the social rules we expect people to follow and their manipulations are shockingly effective if you’re unprepared.

That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 tells that you’re dealing with a narcissist, one who is lying in an attempt to gaslight you. That way you’ll be more able to catch them and defend yourself.

We’ll be using Jussie Smollett as our example. For those of you who missed out, in 2019 he claimed to have been a victim of a hate crime. But his story quickly fell apart in ways that are instructive for catching narcissistic liars in your own life.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:30 - Sign #1: Details that only serve to establish a desirable persona
1:47 - Sign #2: Other people's motivations relate back to them
3:23 - Sign #3: Making skepticism evidence of a character flaw in the disbeliever
5:06 - Sign #4: In the face of overwhelming evidence, they tend to dig in deeper
5:52 - Sign #5: A cost/benefit analysis of a narcissist's lies will probably make no sense to you
6:44 - Bonus Sign: Narcissists tend to be perpetually unhappy due to their image focused nature


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4 Surprising Things That Sabotage Friendships

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Friendships are some of the most important things in life. Yet sometimes it can seem difficult to start friendships - other times friendships you have simply dissolve. And that may be because you are doing something to sabotage them. Either having an idea of how to make friends or keep a friendship and relationships, you will surely realize something new in this video that maybe you haven't.

00:42 Lack of integrity in a friendship or relationship
03:43 Manipulating your friend with guilt
06:57 Being inconsiderate of your friend
08:40 Your values have diverged from your friend's

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We’ve all had a friend say something we don’t like.  Whether it’s a passive aggressive comment or a playful insult that goes too far, it can be tough to know how to respond.

So in this video we’re going to cover three ways to handle it when a friend crosses the line and you want to stand up for yourself without starting a fight.

We’ll start by breaking down a few examples with Jonah Hill.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 

0:27 - #1: Fire back an insult yourself.
1:45 - #2: Draw a boundary.
5:00 - #3: Turn it into friendly banter.

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No matter who you are, we’ve all been nervous before. And sometimes your nervousness can get in the way of making a good impression or connecting with someone you like.

But being nervous doesn’t have to ruin an interaction. There are ways to be incredibly charismatic, even if you’re nervous. That’s what we’ll be learning in today’s video on Tom Hiddleston.

Now I’m not saying Tom is always nervous, but he’s a great person to learn this from. He’s incredibly likeable despite showing some telltale signs of nervousness in interviews. Like filler words, fidgeting, and blushing.

Despite those habits, Tom is considered extremely charismatic, humble, and charming.
So in this video we’ll break down 5 easy tricks you can learn from Tom to come off as charismatic even when you’re nervous.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
1:16 - #1: Anchor a positive first impression
2:13 - #2: Use a one second cliffhanger pause
4:05 - #3: Keep your voice confident using pace and timbre
4:55 - #4: Fully commit
7:27 - #5: Focus on having fun rather than looking cool

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