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So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!

Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.

Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)

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I used to think being attractive was all about confidence, teasing, and strong body language, but I was missing something deeper. In this video, I break down the 3 traits of grounded masculinity that most men overlook. These are the traits that make women feel emotionally safe, connected, and irresistibly drawn in.


0:00 – Why Typical Attraction Advice Falls Short
2:39 – Containment: The Balance Between Holding Space and Setting Limits
4:18 – Empathetic Attunement: Feeling Without Getting Lost
7:08 – Grounding Someone in the Now (Not the Logic)


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How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2)
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Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview.

This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.

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Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them.

0:00 - Intro
2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort
3:27 - Over explaining and rambling
4:42 - Seeking approval
6:46 - Roping in other people
9:08 - Resentment
12:51 - Compliment sandwiching

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Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)

Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.

In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.

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Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People

When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad.

But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives.

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My original Jordan Peterson video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nS9W-wlJHPA


Jordan Peterson has delivered some of the internet’s most iconic debate moments. But his Surrounded video doesn’t quite reach that same level.

Many will dissect the substance of the debate—the semantic haze, the definitions, the back-and-forth. That’s not where I want to focus.

What matters most in a debate, if your goal is to actually change someone’s mind, isn’t clever semantics, gotcha moments, or even airtight logic. It’s the emotional connection you build through rapport and charisma. That human link is what opens the door to real persuasion.


0:00 - Intro
1:04 - Focus on amusement
3:06 - Use a receptive style of listening
6:41 - The Anti NBA Rule
10:11 - This makes everything easier


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Most people spend their lives bouncing between pleasing others and chasing freedom—never realizing both paths can feel like a trap. This video breaks down the psychological tug-of-war between ego and superego, inspired by a powerful scene from Shogun.

If you've ever felt stuck between doing what you should do and what you want to do, this might reframe everything.

00:00 - Intro
00:23 - Shogun
00:59 - The Scene
01:56 - Living Ego
03:03 - The Dilemma
03:35 - Super Ego
04:44 - Coping
05:57 - Finding The Truth
06:58 - The Middle Way
08:03 - 3 Powerful Questions
08:50 - What Happens Next
09:30 - Living Your Path


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How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command

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Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:
Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.

Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention.

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