Scott Aniol explains how Christians can preserve unity in the church by becoming hard to offend. From Colossians 3:12–14 and other Scriptures, he shows that spiritual maturity is not found in defending ourselves against every slight, but in humility, patience, and love. Christians should learn to overlook small offenses, think the best of others, and refuse to keep a record of wrongs. At the same time, real sin should be addressed with wisdom, gentleness, and a desire for restoration. Ultimately, believers can forgive and forbear with one another because God in Christ has forgiven them.