Chat With T

Chat With T

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  • 8. Taking my cape off

    Welcome back to the CWT podcast and the final episode of Season 2! (Stay tuned for Season 3!)


    In today’s episode, I discuss how we cannot help people who do not want to help themselves. By constantly intervening and trying to 'fix' people's situation, we:

    1- Stop others from experiencing their karma or learning their lesson.

    2- leave room for our intervention to potentially backfires on us.

    When people aren’t open to receiving our help or taking our advice, that is when we take note. We withdraw that energy and pour it into ourselves instead. We are not anyone’s designated Savior or Messiah. That is not our job, not our title. 

    Withdrawing your time and energy from others DOES NOT make you selfish, or a bad person. It shows you are aware of others’ self undoing behavior and want to give them the autonomy to make their own decisions!


    I also speak on my projection, just because I think it would be the best or smart choice, doesn’t mean it would be the best or smart choice for them. We have to let people live their lives without hijacking their decision making. Establish boundaries, so that people can stop being so dependent on you. Everyone has a life of their own, lessons to learn and things to experience. 


    Thank you for tuning in tonight and thank you for your unwavering support! That's a wrap for Season 2! Stay tuned for Season 3 of the CWT Podcast :)

    If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review!


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    12 min
  • He gave me the Ick: Men are not Okay

    Today we chat about what to do  when a man prioritizes lust over genuine connection. While physical attraction is a normal and healthy part of relationships, there’s a difference between being desired for who you are versus being objectified for how you make someone feel.


    It’s empowering to know your worth and to distinguish between genuine affection and fleeting desire. Understanding these dynamics helps you build stronger, more fulfilling relationships that honor your full self – not just the surface level. Never settle!


    Thank you for tuning in tonight. I would love for you to engage in some meaningful reflection in regard to today’s episode: 


    Reflect on your past or current relationships: Are they built on respect, shared values, and mutual growth, or are they focused on physical attraction?


    If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review!


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    18 min
  • She's Back: My Journey of Transformation

    Welcome back to the Chat With T podcast!

    In this episode, I share my personal journey of transformation and the lessons I've learned along the way. From stepping away from the conventional path to fully embracing my identity as a content creator, I delve into the ups and downs of living a non-traditional life. Join me as I discuss how trusting yourself and recognizing the magic of divine timing can lead to unexpected opportunities and growth.

    Key Topics:

    1. My Journey of Transformation:
      • Reflecting on my past and the pivotal moments that led to my transformation.
      • Embracing change and the fears that came with it.
      • The importance of self-discovery and finding your authentic self.
      • Living a Non-Traditional Life:
        • What it means to choose a path less traveled.
        • The challenges and rewards of breaking societal norms.
        • Tips for those considering a similar journey.
        • Becoming a Content Creator:
          • My experience stepping into the world of content creation.
          • The importance of storytelling and sharing your voice.
          • Building a community and the power of connection.
          • The Magic of Divine Timing:
            • How everything always works out in the end.
            • Trusting the process and letting go of the need to control.
            • Signs and synchronicities that guided me along the way.
            • Advice for My Audience:
              • Embrace your unique journey—it's okay to be different.
              • Trust yourself; your instincts are your greatest ally.
              • Remember that every setback is a setup for a comeback.
              • Stay open to possibilities; sometimes, the best opportunities come when you least expect them.

                • Thank you for joining me on this journey! I hope my experiences inspire you to embrace your own path, trust in yourself, and remember that everything unfolds in divine timing. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who might need a little encouragement today!

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                Resources:

                • Books: The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron
                • Podcasts: Embodying Your Alter Ego
                  • 16 min
                • 5: S/O to my Fast-tailed Girls
                  Welcome back to the CWT Podcast!! On today's episode, I discuss the phrase fast-tailed girls, the over-sexualization of little black girls, and the policing of black women’s bodies. We also discuss toxic narratives within the black community that propel the oversexualization of black girls. As well as ways that we can move towards healing and deconstruct those toxic narratives.
                  Thank you so much for tuning 🤗
                  Ways to support this podcast:
                  If you enjoyed today's episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review  
                  FOLLOW THE CHAT WITH T PODCAST INSTAGRAM: @thecwtpodcast
                  FOLLOW THE HOST, TAMECIA: Tamecia’s Instagram
                  21 min
                • 4. F*ck Your Beauty Standards

                  NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY! 

                  Today, I had the pleasure of chatting with Deja about societies' beauty standards for both men and women. We dove into our personal self-love journey, the pressure we feel as Black Women to attain certain beauty standards, and the BBL trend. 

                  We also discuss...

                  • Social media + the impact it has on today's beauty standards 
                  • Our family + how we view ourselves 
                  • The glamorization of plastic surgery

                    • Where to find Deja: Main IG , Spiritual IG, Youtube Channel

                    Ways to support this podcast:

                    If you enjoyed today's episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review  

                    FOLLOW THE CHAT WITH T PODCAST INSTAGRAM: @thecwtpodcast

                    FOLLOW THE HOST, TAMECIA: Tamecia’s Instagram 

                    Check out the CWT Blog for weekly posts and updates: https://www.chatwitht.com

                    26 min
                  • 3. Self sabotage + how to stop
                    NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY! 
                    On this week's chat, I share 5 Self-sabotaging behaviors that we engage in + how to stop! We are the journey to becoming the best version of ourselves, and to do so, we must identify and take action on what causes a hinderance!
                    Self-sabotaging Behaviors:
                    Avoiding Conflict
                    Unable to let go
                    Obsessed with Social media
                    Lacking accountability
                    Unable to accept rejection
                    Ways to support this podcast:
                    • If you enjoyed today's episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review
                    • FOLLOW THE CHAT WITH T PODCAST INSTAGRAM: @thecwtpodcast
                    • FOLLOW THE HOST, TAMECIA: Tamecia’s Instagram
                    • Check out the CWT Blog for weekly posts and updates: https://www.chatwitht.com
                    17 min
                  • 2. Is it Colorism or a Preference?

                    NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY! 

                    Is it Colorism or a Preference? Is it still a 'preference' when you date someone based on skin tone before getting to know them? Kristen (Creator of 'What Are You Growing Thru') joined me for a chat on Colorism and Texturism within the Black community. We also spoke about the 'Good Hair' debate, Brainwash mentality, and Anti-black rhetoric. 

                    So often as Black Woman, we are held to a higher standard when it comes to our appearances, ESPECIALLY with our hair. Wear a bonnet? Ghetto. Wear your natural hair? Some people question whether it's ‘done’ or not. And if you are Black, and you don’t have coarse hair, people question your Blackness and assume you are 'mixed'. 

                    We also discuss...

                    • Cancel Culture
                    • Black Women in the Professional Workspace
                    • The degradation and the Over-sexualization of Dark Skin
                    • Bi-racial individuals not acknowledging their AA side 

                      • Kristen, Host of "‘What Are You Growing Thru?’ (yes, it's trademarked. Talk To Her Nice 🤪) Instagram & Blog 

                      Ways to support this podcast:

                      • If you enjoyed today's episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review 
                      • FOLLOW THE CHAT WITH T PODCAST INSTAGRAM: @thecwtpodcast
                      • FOLLOW THE HOST, TAMECIA: Tamecia’s Instagram
                      • Check out the CWT Blog for weekly posts and updates: https://www.chatwitht.com


                        • #colorism #texturism #naturalhair #podcast


                        33 min
                      • 1. She's Back: Life Update

                        Im back baby where the love at?? This is a mini-episode that talks a little bit about my hiatus, goals for 2022, and what's in store for Season 2 of the Chat with T Podcast! 

                        NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY! 

                        Ways to support this podcast:

                        If you enjoyed today's episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review 

                        FOLLOW THE CHAT WITH T PODCAST INSTAGRAM:

                         @thecwtpodcast

                        FOLLOW THE HOST, TAMECIA

                        Tamecia’s Instagram

                        Check out the CWT Blog for weekly posts and updates!

                        https://www.chatwitht.com

                        8 min
                      • Epi. 13 Don't Let Loneliness Lead You to Lust

                        Happy Wednesday CWT fam 🌱 Today marks my 2 year celibacy anniversary! And, today is also the season finale! I wanted to share a raw and authentic episode about how these past two years of intimacy fasting has been for me. I would love for you to let me know your experience with celibacy and how it worked (or didn't) for you!  Thank you so much tuning in! If you enjoyed this episode please make sure to leave a rating and review on iTunes Check out the CWT Blog for weekly posts and updates! Chat with me: Podcast IG & Personal IG 

                        My Linktree 

                        Send me a message so I can add to my next episode! https://anchor.fm/chatwith-t/message

                        35 min
                      • Epi. 12 Seven Common Dreams & How to interpret them
                        Have you ever experienced vivid dreams? Are you able to recall your dreams when you wake up? Do you know the messages behind your dreams? 💭. Today's chat is all about Dream meanings and interpretations, as well as useful tips for dream recollection! 
                        Dream Interpretation Websites: Dream Dictionary & Aunty Flo
                        If you enjoyed today's episode, subscribe and leave a rating and review on iTunes
                        Check out the CWT Blog for weekly post and updates! 
                        Chat with me: Podcast IG & Personal IG
                        23 min

                      About Chat With T

                      From the publisher's feed

                      Welcome to the Chat With T Podcast. This podcast is dedicated to helping you navigate life’s complexities, find clarity in your goals, and take meaningful steps toward your dreams. I aim to support you in discovering your strengths, overcoming obstacles, and embracing the journey of self-improvement. I hope to inspire you to become the best versions of yourself and lead a fulfilling, purpose-driven life!