When someone betrays you, it's a reflection of their character, not yours remember, there's a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who will do anything to keep you. Secrets & lies kill relationship. No matter how careful you are, you will get caught. What's done in darkness always comes to light remember: they cheated because they wanted to, they lied because they could, and now they're sorry because they got caught, it's always about them. You did nothing to cause or deserve it I'm a firm believer in second chances, but I'm also a firm believer that cheaters don't deserve them