Advice About Life, Breakups, Depression & Anxiety

Life has taught me that you can't control someone's loyality. No matter how good you are to them, dosen't mean that they will treat you the same. No matter how much they mean to you, dosen't mean they will value you the same. Sometimes the people you love the most, turn out to be the people you can trust the least. Don't take people for granted. No matter how much they love you, people get tired eventually. We are all given chances, but you never know when the last chance may be. All life demands struggle. Those who have everything given to them become lazy, selfish, and insennsitive to the real values of life. The very striving and hard work that we so constantly try to avoid is the major building block in the person we are today. Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.

After years of trauma. Abuse and neglect your core foundation is wiped out it feels like your heart and soul are broken shattered into a million pieces that is why healing is a lifelong process and hard hard work... always remember if you have been diagnosed with PTSD it is not a sign of weakness; rather, it is proof of your strength, because you have survived. Instead of saying I'm damaged, I'm broken, I have trust issues say I'm healing, I'm rediscovering myself, I'm starting over positive self talk. Not all wounds are visible treatment works don't wait seek help today. PTSD it's not the person refusing to let go of the the past but the past refusing to let go of the person. So hard when your days and nights are filled with memories you just desperately want to forget over time, as most people fail the survivors exacting test of trustworthiness. She tends to withdraw from relationships the isolation of the Survivor, thus persist even after she is free

The hardest thing about ADHD is that it's invisible to outsiders. People just assume that we are not being good parents and that our child is a brat, when they don't have an idea how exhausted we truly are. People with ADHD find more success by focusing on their natural talents and then by developing a plan to make those talents even stronger. When you have ADHD your home reflects our thought. In disarray. And like with a disorganized house. You can only apologize for your disorganized Brain so many time before it becomes exhausting. People with ADHD are fully aware that the past and the future exist... the condition means that it is hard to separate them... past hurts feel like they've just happened, and future worries feel like they are happening right now it is not our fault

A shot to kill the pain a pill to drain the shame a purge to stop the gain a cut to break the vein a smoke to ease the crave a drink to win a game an addiction's addiction because it always hurts the same. But in rising up every time we fall. Never underestimate a recovering addict we fight for our lives every day in ways most people will never understand. You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life. Keep the faith, the most amazing things in life tend to happen right at the moment you're about to give up hope. Change your behaviors and your feelings will follow. There is no shame in beginning again for you get a chance to build bigger and better than before

I want to live my life without stress and worries, I don't need to be rich or famous, I just want to be happy I'm perfect in my imperfections happy in my pain, strong in my weakness and beautiful in my own way because I'm me. What I do with my life is of my own doing. I live it the best way I can life is for my own to live my own way, I will never apologize for who I am. I've worked too hard on my happiness, to be affected by people and things that don't understand the energy and time I've put into myself I hate crying in front of people so if I have ever cried in front of you, yes it dose kinda mean you're important but mostly it means that I will regret forever

It felt like it was all too much having suicidal thoughts and finding a way back only now do I realize how much he must have been suffering you eventually learn to trust no one. Being alone sucks but at least you don't have to worry about being let down or hurt again.... you think suicide is cowardly I'll tell you wants cowardly. Hurting someone so much that they want to end their lives sometimes.... it's okay to cry it's okay to be a little upset. Staying positive Dosen't mean you have to be happy all the time. It means that even on hard days you know that there are better ones coming. I'm no therapist: I will listen, I will care No. You aren't alone. Yes. We all feel this way sometimes No. You won't always feel like this Yes. The world is a better place with you in it

Being adopted is like being a squared peg trying to fit into a round hole. You just don't fit so after a while you stop trying adoption is a trauma that happens to a child. The child is torn from a mother, placed in the arms of strangers and is left with questions, doubts, fears, and anxiety with no way to verbalize, Express, mourn, or contextualize those feelings. It has been said that adoption is more like a marriage than a birth: two ( or more ) Individuals, each with their own unique mix of needs, patterns and genetic history, coming together with love, hope, , commitment for a joint future you become a family not because you share the same genes but because you share love for each other. Finding my birth family was the single most important moment of my entire life, it was ( As ) if I'd been holding my breath my entire life and for the first time I could let it out. Being adopted means you didn't have any say and everyone expects you to be someone you are not you never really lived until you have done something for someone who can never repay you. Never assume that because a child was adopted that their life is as wonderful as adoption is painted out to be. Many adoptees are grieving the loss of their mother and family. Those feelings don't always go away because a child was adopted. Being a parent wasn't just about bearing a child it was about bearing witness its life a child born to another woman calls me mommy. The magnitude of that tragedy and the depth of that privilege are not lost on me tears are words too painful for a broken heart to speak

More than ever I find myself in the hands of God. This is what I have wanted all my life from my youth. But now there is a difference; the initiative is entirely with God. It is indeed profound spiritual experience to know and feel myself so totally in Gods hands. Dear God I praise you and thank you for all the amazing ways today. I thank you for blessing me with wisdom and understanding. Thank you for carrying me to fulfill the plan you have for my life, may you answer me in my distress. May you give me the desire of my heart in Jesus Name. Amen Let's Pray... Heavenly Father, thank you for this day. We thank you for being able to see, hear, touch, feel and walk this morning. Provide a way for those who lack any of these we pray. Lord we are bless because you are a forgiving god and a understanding God. You've done so much for us and still keep on blessing us also our families and friends, we say thanks. Thanks for opening doors to bless and closed doors that would be detrimental. Forgive us our sins known and unknown. Continue to keep us safe from all dangers and harm , seen and unseen . Let us start today with a new attitude and plenty of gratitude. In Jesus Name, Dear Heavenly Father, I know it's time for a change. Give me the courage to keep going. For I am afraid to let go, I believe that when a door opens another opens, for you are faithful. But i am assured that no matter what, there is one thing that never changes Jesus Christ who is the same yesterday, thank you for holding onto me through the different seasons of my life. Almighty God, I thank you that even today's world, I can find peace in you. Help me not to be overwhelmed by the constant bad reports for the world. Help me keep my eyes on you and be enveloped by your peace. In Jesus loving Name. Dear God thank you for all the blessings in my life, big & small, thank you for surrounding me with people who love and care about me

Never judge someone based off of how the look, you don't know their past and what they have been through everyone judges someone to a certain extent. So it bothers me when people say I don't judge others I'm like, yes you do... stop lying please don't judge people you don't know what it took someone to get out of bed, look and feel presentable as possible and face the day. You never truly know the daily struggles of others everyone has untold stories of pain and sadness that make them love and live a little differently than you do. Stop judging! Instead try to understand

Being pregnant is supposed to be the happiest time in your life if a guy leaves his gf/wife while she's pregnant he should never get the opportunity to meet the kid. He made that choice men who think it's okay to sleep with women, get her pregnant and leave are just as pathetic and less of a man you will never be too much or not enough for the right person don't settle for someone who can't love you for who you are it's that look. As if they just, right then, realize you exist, even though they've looked at you a thousand times, that same way . Keep them hes like nobody else in the world. When I'm with him, it's like I'm split in half, part of me is on fire, going crazy if I'm not touching him. The other half is calm and peaceful just perfectly content, knowing he is the one for me