The place the Black man unwillingly occupies in this country is not for the weak at heart, in fact it's sole purpose to to rid the Black man of all emotion. The positioning of the Black man turned into a race for the spot, rather that's a spot out the hood, the spot at a job or with your favorite girl in the city. Birthed from this was our "cool' great at most times but it also manifested in Black men ignoring basic human emotions in lieu of maintaining the position of cool.