Love is the most important thing in the life of a believer. this is why we were called to love our neighbor even to the point if laying down our lives for them. many people have abandon this very significant duty of the ecclesia of Christ. paul says in 1 cor 13 : 1 f I speak in the tongues[a] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,[b] but do not have love, I gain nothing.