Chiming In

Why do we take things so personally — especially with the people closest to us? In this episode of Chiming In, we explore rejection sensitivity, the stories we tell ourselves, and why small moments can trigger big feelings.

We talk about the childhood patterns we carry into adulthood, the fear underneath rejection, and what actually helps when you feel dismissed, misunderstood, or overly sensitive. We share our own real experiences (the funny ones and the painful ones) and unpack the emotional wiring behind our reactions.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why did that bother me so much?” this conversation will feel like a deep breath.

Tell us your story about taking things personally or feeling rejected — email us at [email protected].

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Ghosting hurts — whether it comes from a friend, a date, or someone you thought would be in your life forever. 💔

In this episode, we begin to unpack why it feels so personal, the emotional ripple it creates, and how to make sense of that silence without blaming yourself. 🫠 If you’ve ever been left wondering what happened… you’re not alone.

Along the way, we lighten things up with a few of our own “button-pushers” and mini pet-peeves 😬 — the small, funny quirks we surprised each other with that keep life relatable and human.

It’s honest, warm, a little vulnerable, and (of course) sprinkled with some classic Elyse-and-David banter.

Come for the insight. Stay for the laughs.

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The Thanksgiving week felt long, beautiful, hilarious, sweet, and completely exhausting in all the familiar ways — and today we’re debriefing it all. From all four kids under one roof 🏠❤️, to the Imposter game 🎲, unexpected meltdowns 😅, cheeseboards 🧀, and the moments that made us laugh, we’re talking about what really happened this year.

And then we shift into something softer. ✨

As the days get shorter and the sun seems to slip away earlier 🌅, we talk about the very human instinct to make our homes glow — not only as a holiday thing, but also as something ancient and universal. Maybe the darker season isn’t something to dread. Maybe the sun just needs a little extra rest this time of year… and while it sleeps, we get to be the keepers of the light 🕯️✨.

A warm, real-time episode about family, returning to ourselves, and finding the good in the shortest days of the year. ❄️💛

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-Elyse and David

Ever been trapped in a car/plane/Airbnb with your whole family and thought, “This was supposed to be FUN…”? 😅

In this week’s episode of Chiming In, we’re talking all things family travel + holiday break reality:

🧳 Nostalgic road trip games

Squiggle game, license plate game, and the low-tech stuff that actually gets everyone off their phones and laughing again.

🎲 Our current favorite games

A few board + party games we’re loving right now for all ages (linked in the show notes) — including one that will expose the true imposter in your family. 👀

⏰ The “clock trick” for little kids on vacation

How we used a simple clock move to get small humans to sleep later in a new place. (No guarantees… but it did buy us a little sanity.)

🏡 College kids coming home

How to give them space, lower expectations, and still get some real connection in that short Thanksgiving break. We’re sharing a great Grown & Flown article we love, too.

💭 Expectations vs. Reality

From travel plans to family dynamics to surprise gifts (hi, Elyse’s mom 🥹) — we’re unpacking how to loosen our grip on “how it’s supposed to go” and actually enjoy what is.

If you’re traveling, hosting, or just bracing for everyone to be under one roof again… this one’s for you. ❤️

License Plate Game link: https://a.co/d/jldGsrS

Imposter - Party Word Game link: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/imposter-party-word-game/id6745120053

Left Center Right link: https://a.co/d/csl5Vvq

Teenager Coming Home Blog Post: https://grownandflown.com/thanksgiving-break-to-do-list/

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In this episode, we dive into Wicked (one of us may have Obsessive Wicked Disorder), talk about seeing the brand-new Wicked movie in theaters, and share the family memories this musical has woven into our lives. From Flora’s emotional Wicked moment in New York to Bella belting the “Defying Gravity” finale from the top of our staircase, Wicked has been part of our family story for years.

Then we drift into fall nostalgia — leaf piles, childhood memories, the coziness of the season — and somehow end up with Elyse and her challenge unpacking. Are you an “unpack immediately” type or a “leave the suitcase for three weeks” type?

A warm, funny, seasonal episode full of fun facts about Wicked, family stories, and relatable chaos. 🍂✨

Please e-mail any comments or questions to [email protected] - we love hearing from you!

This week, we’re talking about the moments that stretch us — the ones we resist, fear, avoid… and then end up changing us in the best possible ways.

Elyse makes a confession about something she never thought she’d do (and how saying “yes” surprised everyone, including herself).

We talk about the tiny acts of bravery that expand us, the takeout-dinner debate that was supposed to be deleted, and one unforgettable travel tip.

Plus: Elyse discovered a little piece of writing while recording and shares “Go Out & Come Back In” — a way to appreciate what’s right in front of you.

Segments:

• ​David’s and Elyse’s confession (and why it was a turning point)
• ​The takeout story that was not a debate at all.
• ​A travel moment that was a surprise to both of us
• ​“Go Out & Come Back In” — short piece of writing that happened to match this episode perfectly

This episode is warm, encouraging, and the perfect reminder that surprising yourself might be the most important part of growing.

We would love to hear from you! Please email us at [email protected].

Feeling seen and feeling heard are two of the deepest human needs — but also the two we misunderstand the most.

In this episode, we talk about the difference between listening and really hearing, why validation matters more than “fixing,” and how tiny shifts in communication can completely change the tone of a relationship.

We share the moments where we got it wrong, the moments we got it right, and the hilarious dishwashing debate that teaches you everything you need to know about communication in a marriage.

Whether you’re in a relationship, navigating family dynamics, or just want to feel more connected in your daily life — this one will make you laugh, nod, and maybe rethink the way you hear the people you love.

Segments:

• ​Why validation matters
• ​How to reflect without competing
• ​Common communication traps
• ​The “being seen” moment everyone craves
• ​Our Great Debate: Which dishwashing method is correct?

We’d love to hear from you! E-mail us at [email protected].

We’re kicking off our very first episode with the story people always ask us to tell: how we met…again.

It includes elementary school, a phone call that changed everything, and the moment Elyse recognized David’s voice almost before she even knew who was speaking. (Yes, really.)

We also talk about our favorite Thanksgiving memories, the family gatherings, and the little things that still make us smile and laugh decades later.

If you’re new here, and you are, because this is our first episode, this is the perfect snapshot of who we are: curious, honest, sentimental, and a little all over the place in the best way.

Segments:

• ​ The “you had me at hello” story
• ​ What changed everything
• ​ Thanksgiving: the memories and the fun
• ​ Why trusting our gut in a relationship matters
• ​ Great Debate: Canned cranberry sauce or…

We’d love to hear from you! Please email us at [email protected].