Chip Chats is not turning into a "sad dads" podcast, but the conversations about losing children and the grief journey is an important one.
In 2021, as a 14-year-old, Nell Smith recorded an album of Nick Cave covers with The Flaming Lips and performed "Red Right Hand" on the Stephen Colbert Show.
Now that Nell had caught people’s attention, she started working on her own music. She worked with artists like Penelope Isles and Shred Kelly and had completed 10 songs with an eye on packaging them up for her first proper solo album. On October 6, 2024, after spending the day shooting footage for the “Split in the Sky” video, Nell was involved in a fatal single-car accident. Just like my own daughter, Liv, Nell had passed away at the age of 17.
Nell’s dad Jude reached out to tell me he had listened to my episode with Ben Kweller and Rocky Votolato and, while painful, he was appreciative that we had shared our stories. He told me about about a Memorial Fund that the family has started to honor Nell and I asked if he’d want to come on the Chip Chats podcast to talk about Nell, his grief journey, the fund and more. I’m so thankful that he agreed. As you’ll hear in the episode, I mentioned that I wish Jude and I had never met, if losing children was the commonality between us, but because of our experiences, I now consider him to be part of my Grief Bros family.
Learn more about the Nell Smith Memorial Fund: https://www.nellsmithmusic.com/about-memorial-fund