You cant chose you're family but you can chose who you live with. How weird would it be to chose your family though? If you could would you do it like a whole X-Factor styled round system or would you chose like the initial coupling on Love Island where you just chose first time you see them. but then I guess you do decide the first time you see your family you just don't get shown a competing family. The Family Games!! The winner gets a child! Wait ignore that... Im tired I don't know whats going on anymore. Just be grateful for the one you've got even if they're not great. Anya and Tom can be your non-legal guardians. They'll teach you everything you need to know about adulting. 

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The team talks about how great Tom is to live with, Anya needs to be fed a lot of sweets and they lived with a kid with an umbrella hat.