Choosing Us

Choosing Us

By Brad and Michaela DraperEducationSelf-Improvement
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Choosing Us episodes

  • 22. Stronger Through the Fire
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela cover the topic of battling adversity together. They relate lessons learned together and how being a foundation for the other is pivotal to an ever growing relationship. Further, they discuss how standing strong for your partner only brings the couple closer together. Lastly, they discuss the vital importance to holding space for eachother to release energy, specifically men releasing energy and crying when needed. They state how important it is to feel. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    26 min
  • 21. Why am I Happy?
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about happiness. They discuss the importance of doing activities each day that make you happy. Form that happiness is energy capacity made. They dive down the hole of what it takes to bring happiness and satisfaction to a relationship. You must first work on yourself in order to have the capacity to work on the partnership. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    24 min
  • 20. Spotlight with Ben and Andreea
    On this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have very special guests on the new mini series, SpotLights. Ben and Andreea are an amazing couple with a wealth of knowledge. Not only does their knowledge go deep, but wide. They share so many tactical nuggets to be used in your relationship. This is a must listen episode full of riveting stories from fleeing a communist country, living as immigrant kids in the USA, true conviction, and how they blend it all together to make one seriously strong power couple. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    50 min
  • 19. It's Not REAL
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss social media and how it can affect your relationship. They discuss the ever toxic nature of movies, social media, and pornography. They speak about how a façade is created of what a relationship should be, versus reality. They discuss what real looks like for them and how they had to learn that the hard way. They talk about the trials of early in marriage and overcoming the adversity created by media. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    24 min
  • 18. Triggered Much?
    In this Episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the ever important topic of being triggered. They discuss how Brad loves that words so much, and why. They talk about not taking offense from your partner and learning to understand one another on a new level. They also discuss not placing past experiences and trauma on current situations. It was noted to see your spouse for who they are today and not who they were in the past. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    23 min
  • 17. The Power of Words
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about the power of words. They relate words to bullets and how to tackle when one of the partner's messes up. Brad relates a time when he messed up and how thy became stronger as a couple because of it. Michaela shares the vulnerable side of her story and how she proactively responded to the situation. They discuss how no one is perfect and things will happen along your journey together, but will ultimately become better because of the harder times. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    24 min
  • 16. Let's Talk About SEX
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela tackle the taboo topic of sex. They discuss the importance of intimicy within a relationship and how they revolutionized their sex life, and ultimately they relationship. They cover, in a friendly way, and break down the walls of sex conversations wihtin a relationship. They talk about having communication with each other about sex both while engaged and not engaged intimately. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    23 min
  • 15. Can't Change Me
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the topic of trying to change your partner. They discuss the fact that it is not possible to change your partner, but to meet them where they are at. They speak about loving your partner and gently guiding your spouse in positive directions by example. Love them where they are. They speak heavily on fitness and the role it has played in their lives. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    24 min
  • 14. Love Thy Self
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the importance of loving yourself in a relationship before you can love your significant other. How can this be? How selfish! They discuss this is IMPORTANT and absolutely not selfish, but selfless. They talk about how one can show up their best self once they have shown up for themselves. You must first understand and find yourself before you can truly give yourself. They discuss tools and tactics fow how to implement loving yourself. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    25 min
  • 13. Show Me the Money
    In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss finances and the importance of having that conversation OFTEN. It is vitally important to talk about your financial identity where where you both stand in your relationship. They discuss the ever growing issue with divorce and in the top causes for divorce is financial stress and miscommunication. They are not financial advisors and are not giving advice, but merely giving their own experiences. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!

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    26 min

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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they are different…