There are 5 things we should never try to do in relationships: change; cure; control; compare or connect with others in unhealthy ways. I believe that eighty percent of all relationship problems occur because one or more of these principles have been...

We’ve all been hurt; everybody alive today has experienced some sort of emotional pain. But what you choose to do with the hurt is more important than the hurt itself. Each of us has to decide, and then choose to engage in the healing process so that...

One of the hot topics in our culture wars today is same-sex marriage. From a Christian world view we believe that same-sex marriage contradicts the bible’s definition of what marriage is; the sacred union between a man and a woman. The question now is...

Many of you are familiar with the adultery website Ashley Madison that was recently hacked. The hackers released 10 GB worth of data that compromised over 32 million users. Names, locations and credit cards were all disclosed. This is a case study in...

Why do some children grow up and make the same mistakes as their parents? Because many folks don’t know the difference between hypocrisy and spiritual growth. Hypocrisy is when you say, “Do as I say, not as I do.” Spiritual growth is when I discover...

In my judgment, one of the most misunderstood verses in the bible is Matthew 5:9 “Blessed are the peace-makers, for they shall be called sons of God.” NKJV. Notice it says, “peacemakers,” not “peacekeepers”. Peacemaking deals with reconciliation...

We’re tempted to worry about lots of things in life. Some fall into the category of “Circle of Control,” and these are things that we really shouldn’t worry about because they’re things that we can immediately act on and control or influence the...

With the internet, everything is so instant. We've trained ourselves to expect a response from our text message or email message the second we hit the "send" button. This has had a devastating impact on our children. Many of the qualities God wants...

If you have any type of interaction with people, there will be moments of crossed signals and disagreements. One of the key abilities to possess, especially in marriage, is the ability to humble yourself and repair incidents in relationships. An apology...

Many of us know what it means to invest. Disinvesting it to withdraw from something that does not have a future. Mathew 10.14 says "And whoever will not receive you nor hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from...