Paul is certainly giving teaching that would help heal the damaged relationship between Euodia and Syntyche. When we are bitter and angry, we naturally focus on what is wrong with our abusers or those who offend us. When we think on the things of Philippians 4:8, bitterness begins to be replaced with grace, love, and truth. We are commanded by Paul to think critically about the following qualities or characteristics of those who follow Jesus:
a. True (true, truthfulness): God’s Word, the created order, the laws of physical science, etc.
b. Honorable (noble, honorable, dignified)
c. Right/righteous (right, dutiful, just): Certainly moral rightness is presumed by God’s standard for truth which defines all morality. Should a Christian embrace the “gray” areas of moral life? Cf., 1 John 1:5 (“God is light and in Him there is no darkness at all”)
d. Pure (pure)
e. Lovely (what is lovely)
f. Good reputation (well-spoken, good speech, sweetly spoken): God’s created order, He Himself said, “It was/is very good!”
g. Virtue (virtue, moral excellence)
h. Worthy of Praise (praise-worthy)
What is the Christian’s relationship to culture?
a. The Christian avoiding culture (monasticism). All too often, Christians do not engage with culture. They are certainly not monastics, however, functionally they are hiding from engaging in the political process.
b. The Christian destroying culture (Religious hegemonism).
c. The Christian being influenced negatively by culture (hedonism)
d. The Christian influencing culture (evangelism).