Sermon Notes for January 27, 2019
and Special Installation Service for
Pastor Steve Hemmeke
“Conflicts and Reconciliation”
Steps of Reconciliation: PEOPLE
Matthew 18
--Gregg Strawbridge--
I. Who is the great in the kingdom? (18:1-14)
II. How are the great (to act) in the kingdom? (18:15-20)
III. Why are the great (to act) in the kingdom? (18:21-35)
Conflicts and Reconciliation in a “Biblical Church”? Philippian, Roman, Corinthian, Galatian, Ephesian churches?
What is Forgiveness? The Greek verb we translate “forgive” (aphiemi) literally means to “not send or set in motion” and means in many passages to “send away, free, abandon, let go, leave” (Rev. 2:4; Mt. 5:40; Rom. 1:27; Lk. 4:39). In the sense of personal reconciliation, it is to “cancel, remit” (Newman); to “release, on the part of the creditor or offended party, of any expectation that a debt will be repaid” (Lexington); to “let go, or give up a debt” (Thayer).
Healing relationships begins with applying the forgiven status you possess in Christ (from your own sins) to every other person in your life and thus addressing from Gospel-grace all personal conflicts (cf Parable of the Unforgiving Servant in Mt. 18:21-35). These are the steps that organize the principles of healing relationships:
Six Steps of Reconciliation: PEOPLE
1. ____________________ Peace through Forgiveness (Mt. 6:14-15; Rom. 12:18; Heb. 12:18)
2. ____________________ Yourself Before Accusing Others (Mt. 7:1-5).
3. ____________________ Defined with Law and Evidence (Mt. 5:29ff, 16:23, 18:6, 18:16).
4. ____________________ of Confrontation (or Not) -
• we may forgive without confrontation (Eph. 5:32; 1 Pet. 4:8).
• we may forgive through confrontation (Mt. 18:15ff).
5. ____________________ in Confrontation (James 1:19–20; Prov. 18:13; Mt. 18:15ff).
6. ____________________ a Renewed Mind (Phil. 4:4-9; Rom. 12:1-2; Psalm 1).
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*Scripture reading I Timothy 3:15
Sermon Pastor Gregg Strawbridge
“Pastoral Ministry in the Household of God”
I. The Conduct of a Minister
II. The Household of God: Pillar and Foundation
III. Three Aspects of Ministry
A. Private ministry (1 Tim. 4:7; Titus 2:7).
B. Public ministry (Acts 20:26–27; 2 Tim. 4:1-2).
C. Professional ministry (Titus 1:7; 1 Tim. 3:4-5).